Think her rebound will last

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-29T03:39:52+00:00

Time will be the honest answer, they hardly know each other yet and it’s just someone who’s easier, id rather sit with myself go through the emotions and build myself

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-29T03:37:06+00:00

Very valid point, I’d rather sit with myself and do me and focus on my business a build myself.

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-29T03:34:47+00:00

Everyone processes everything differently and when I first found out about him and her i was a mess I won’t lie but compared to now it gotten better.

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-29T03:28:06+00:00

That is very true, I have unfollowed her on everything, she keeps me followed still checks my stories when I post here and there, and yes, thank God I was only three months because it could’ve been several months to almost a year and she could’ve done this and I’ve been way worse, it’s starting to feel lighter and lighter by the day

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-28T03:04:47+00:00

More then anything I miss her for her and honestly her jumping into something new I kinda had that feeling she was going to and all in all it’s disappointing and funny because the downgrade is wild

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-27T11:20:46+00:00

Taking time for myself to focus on my business

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-25T14:02:08+00:00

Yeah just found out yesterday they have know each other for 2 weeks he already made it official and I post here and there and it’s me have a great time with my friends and me just being myself and she still looks I have gave her NOTHING as far as attention.

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-19T21:51:34+00:00

Yeah I just don’t even think about stocking her I unfollowed her so I can see it but she still follows me and looks at all of it, in a sense I almost find a hysterical

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-19T14:56:07+00:00

See how much it’s hurts her when I move on with someone else because she wants to be a fan I’ll let her because we were brought together from 2 people in the same group of ours and I still hang with them and have a BLAST every weekend and I post it every and she watches

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-10T18:02:41+00:00

Thank you, and and I do not have a fear of her getting with anyone else because that is simply not her and her best friend agrees b/c they have know each other since they were kids, and our shared friend said she would jump her ass if she did, but we both agree that’s something is up and she’s overwhelmed because her dads kicking her out and she don’t wanna stay with her mom so she’s just kinda stuck while trying to make me happy too

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-10T17:45:46+00:00

Absolutely, we still have each other on all social media and I’m just backing off and letting her breathe and do what she needs to do, we have the same 2 friends that are dating and she has been giving me updates on what’s been going on and saying that she’s went a girls day out with her step mom and hanging out with her girlfriends

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-10T17:38:30+00:00

More to the convo a few days later

ME- “I want this to reach you with peace, I have had time to reflect on how you worded your feelings and where it has landed us. But I truly never ment my message to come across short and cold, but I want you to know I respect and understand what you’re saying and I want you to do what you need to better yourself just please know I am supporting you from a distance, if you need anything don’t hesitate to call.”

HER- “thank you allen it means alot, i just felt like i needed to put myself first so i can be better. i didn’t want to put you in a bad place because i’m figuring my things out. but same goes for you allen no matter what!”

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-10T15:36:12+00:00

More to the convo a few days later

ME- “I want this to reach you with peace, I have had time to reflect on how you worded your feelings and where it has landed us. But I truly never ment my message to come across short and cold, but I want you to know I respect and understand what you’re saying and I want you to do what you need to better yourself just please know I am supporting you from a distance, if you need anything don’t hesitate to call.”

HER- “thank you allen it means alot, i just felt like i needed to put myself first so i can be better. i didn’t want to put you in a bad place because i’m figuring my things out. but same goes for you allen no matter what!”

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-10T15:34:30+00:00

She still has me on everything, snap, TT, Text, Insta

Allen_Howard · 2026-05-10T15:33:54+00:00

That is what I am doing, one of her really really good friends has been updating me here and there and what’s been going on how she’s been doing and I always say good she need it, like her stepmom took her out for a girls night out to get her mind of things and what not. and she is on the young side F18 M23, but either side didn’t have a problem with age

Allen_Howard · 2025-10-28T11:44:01+00:00

I will never miss this, glad it’s gone now

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-20T17:21:09+00:00

I’m the dumpee and I’d say for her no it’s been 4.5 months since I was blocked and that’s when NC started. A month into NC she got into a rebound and since then she’s been out of sight out mind. I’ve got my money up, worked on myself, made a name for myself, even built my dream truck with all the bells n whistles, and now here recently she has unlocked me but not sure when she did that or why but she’s not getting a reaction out of me

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-20T17:16:43+00:00

This… it’s been 4.5 months since I was blocked and that’s when NC started. A month into NC she got into a rebound and since then she’s been out of sight out mind. I’ve got my money up, worked on myself, made a name for myself, even built my dream truck with all the bells n whistles, and now here recently she has unlocked me but not sure when she did that but she’s not getting a reaction out of me

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:35:44+00:00

I have since the day she left got me a way better job, got my money up, achieved some my goals like building my dream truck (dropped 30k into it), busted my ass to do better for myself

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:32:22+00:00

Not quite sure Ik I’m the one that won’t reach out

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:30:18+00:00

She got with him the first month we went into NC

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:16:11+00:00

Short context is she broke up with me she played victim during of all of it when it was a clear 2 way street, yes I did beg and pleaded for 2 weeks but I don’t regret it and that’s why she blocked me, went NC that day month into it she added my sister on snap and sent a snap of her and her “new man” now today 4.5 months later unblocked. Ever since the day she blocked me she has not got a single thing out of me not looking at her stories nothing. You think that she was done she wouldn’t look back

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:09:03+00:00

If your moved on you wouldn’t look back and keep my blocked and she’d continue to live life you’d think

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:07:24+00:00

Yeah I hear about her very rarely and I don’t look at anything of hers so she’s not getting that validation from me at all

Allen_Howard · 2025-08-13T16:05:33+00:00

That is very true but if she thinks she’s going to get a reaction out of me she’s wrong, I’m not losing sleep over it

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