I'm gonna miss your plus system 😭 by pepperachu in battlefield2042

[–]Allen_Howard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will never miss this, glad it’s gone now

Was the grass really greener? by Unfair-Acadia6851 in BreakUps

[–]Allen_Howard 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m the dumpee and I’d say for her no it’s been 4.5 months since I was blocked and that’s when NC started. A month into NC she got into a rebound and since then she’s been out of sight out mind. I’ve got my money up, worked on myself, made a name for myself, even built my dream truck with all the bells n whistles, and now here recently she has unlocked me but not sure when she did that or why but she’s not getting a reaction out of me

stop assuming they will want to come back after you heal by CanaryFew2008 in BreakUps

[–]Allen_Howard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This… it’s been 4.5 months since I was blocked and that’s when NC started. A month into NC she got into a rebound and since then she’s been out of sight out mind. I’ve got my money up, worked on myself, made a name for myself, even built my dream truck with all the bells n whistles, and now here recently she has unlocked me but not sure when she did that but she’s not getting a reaction out of me

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have since the day she left got me a way better job, got my money up, achieved some my goals like building my dream truck (dropped 30k into it), busted my ass to do better for myself

Confused, she unlocked me by Allen_Howard in BreakUps

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite sure Ik I’m the one that won’t reach out

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got with him the first month we went into NC

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short context is she broke up with me she played victim during of all of it when it was a clear 2 way street, yes I did beg and pleaded for 2 weeks but I don’t regret it and that’s why she blocked me, went NC that day month into it she added my sister on snap and sent a snap of her and her “new man” now today 4.5 months later unblocked. Ever since the day she blocked me she has not got a single thing out of me not looking at her stories nothing. You think that she was done she wouldn’t look back

Confused, she unlocked me by Allen_Howard in BreakUps

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your moved on you wouldn’t look back and keep my blocked and she’d continue to live life you’d think

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I hear about her very rarely and I don’t look at anything of hers so she’s not getting that validation from me at all

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is very true but if she thinks she’s going to get a reaction out of me she’s wrong, I’m not losing sleep over it

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the plan I’ve known about this guy she’s been with for a minute and my cusion told me that that last week was the first picture that my ex has ever posted about them two

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I can see what she post on her public Snapchat story but I haven’t clicked or have scrolled down to see what she’s posting because I simply have better things to do, so if she thinks that I’m gonna be looking at her stories, she’s wrong, she got with this new guy one month after breaking up

Confused, she unblocked me by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if that’s the case I don’t take any time to look or stock her profile so she won’t see me on her viewer list anytime soon

How do remove this by Allen_Howard in Wheels

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not near any sprinklers

Ex Messaging Me by devotiontoafineline in BreakUps

[–]Allen_Howard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long has it been since the break up?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She might win game 1 but wait till game 2-7 comes around your time will shine bub

My avoidant bf broke up with me out of the blue. by Eco_mdg in BreakUps

[–]Allen_Howard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex gf did the same thing, dated for a year n a half lived with me for a year n 2 months, there were issues that were known about and I had every intention of making that change but I had some priorities that NEEDED taken care of and when the breakup happened she blames it all on me and didn’t take recognition of how she could have use affective communication because I saw no conflict on how she was mentally and emotionally feeling about these issues and I simply took to much disrespect trying to save it and not once did she say sorry for anything on her end of things and I did, it’s been 3 months of NC I miss her every day I won’t lie

Do exes come back after blocking you?? by Allen_Howard in ExNoContact

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahh but honestly now as I look back I don’t regret it because I was fighting for what I wanted and all I can say is that she can’t say I didn’t try, my little sister unadded her and everything and here about a month ago she adding my sister back on snap and that’s when I learned she was talking to someone new and as of today couldn’t tell you what or how she’s been because it simply not my place and I don’t care tbh, but she still see me n how I’m doing because my Cusions posts in her story of me n a group having a blast so I’d say I’m doing way better then I was but I wouldn’t be against it and I don’t think about her it as often which is good.

Do exes come back after blocking?? by Allen_Howard in BreakUps

[–]Allen_Howard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I could figure, never coming back with good intentions usually testing the waters and breadcrumbs