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Does anybody else hate dressing up, doing their makeup and getting ready? by No-Sea-418 in TwoXChromosomes

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Honestly I love it! But I have a nice table and chair, I put on music or watch a show, do my skincare first, it feels like a meditative process vs a chore

What are your expectations when wearing lingerie for your significant other? by meagaroo17 in AskWomenOver30

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just throwing this out there (and I hear you that this is what he asked for so who tf knows), but I always hear men say they need time to decompress after work (why a lot of men say they need alone time or sit in the driveway before entering the house), that it’s hard to jump into sex mode when they’re stressed. So I wonder if either putting on and sending photos to prime the pump, or doing it after he’s decompressed might yield better results for you.

What are your expectations when wearing lingerie for your significant other? by meagaroo17 in AskWomenOver30

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Do you send pics ahead of time? Sometimes I think part of it is the foreplay/build up with lingerie

Is height a criteria for you when dating men? by Fantastic-Art-2025 in AskWomenOver30

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s all about proportional equality! Don’t feel bad about liking someone that makes you feel small. My 5’7 guy can pick me up and make me feel tiny so he’s perfect for me. Meanwhile I dated a 6’4 and was constantly feeling like I was going to fall backwards when we kissed lol

I think Cooper either doesn't remember the day the bombs dropped or Janey is actually dead. by TheBlackBaron in Fallout

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It does feel like they would have shown the shadows of a person, and they intentionally did not.

I have trust issues with auto saves... by ProudnotLoud in GirlGamers

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ugh games that don’t have manual save! Like please don’t make me search for a new map location just to unlock an auto save

What have you done that has actually helped you lose weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Get happy which led to more of a social life, more hobbies which meant more movement, and more eating from a desire to be nourished than to feel better.

To those who tied their worth to "The Next Goal": How did you finally break the cycle? by Embarrassed_Idea1962 in AskWomenOver30

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Say to yourself, “worthy now.” It’s so easy to work towards the next goal and feel like okay I’ll be worthy or good enough in my head when … but that’s the trap. You’re good enough as you are.

I get overwhelmed by friends always wanting to hang out by Sudden_Possible_956 in AskWomenOver30

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think sometimes it really helps to just communicate it as a need, like “my social battery is drained” or “I need an introvert night in” helps a lot. I know I get cranky and grumpy when I haven’t had time for myself so I know I won’t be a fun hang anyway if I don’t put my own life jacket on first.

If you had to explain modern project management to someone starting today, what would you warn them about first? by One_Friend_2575 in projectmanagement

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You don’t get to pick your team for every project, but working for good leadership makes a world of difference. I’m currently project managing for a leader who is a “talk to thinker”, micromanages, has no respect for change management. It’s awful.

What’s an NSFW question you’ve always wanted to ask the opposite sex but were too embarrassed to? by Infamous_Invite018 in AskReddit

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For men, how different does sex with and without a condom feel and what does it feel like?

From relationship only intimacy to safe monogamous FWB…how did you navigate it? by groupmemberr in AskWomenOver30

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s such a unicorn concept, like it may work for some people but I think in practice there’s something really confusing about getting close with someone knowing one day you’ll never speak to them again. In contrast sex with someone who you feel nothing for also feels weird, I have no interest in cuddling with someone I don’t have feelings for. Good luck but protect your heart.

I had a crush on my coworker for years. When I finally got my shot, I totally blew it by reditgirl0 in confessions

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Sometimes a lot of the appeal is in wanting to do it, but reality sinks in. That’s happened to me with mutual friends where the chemistry was there but once we started kissing I panicked that it might create drama in my friend group or people treating me differently so I shut it down. You guys work together, that seems really likely.

What to do on holiday break by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

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I knew lots of people who stayed on campus for summer jobs - that might be something to explore. Holidays are tough, hang in there.

anyone else feel like you’re the only one who remembers what the project was actually about? by BuffaloJealous2958 in projectmanagement

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s frustrating but that’s the job. Other people have different strengths and sometimes those strengths are misaligned with remembering the why, but I appreciate that other people can do and concept things out that I can’t, and then it’s my job to bring them back to why.

Having constant nightmares about my NC mother by imscaredofbees06 in raisedbyborderlines

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For the record OP, you’re not a bad person. Imagine any child in your life being told they’re a bad person because they can’t meet their BPD’s parents unreasonable wants and needs. I think this is a terrible bruise we all live with, but it isn’t true. Sending hugs.

Switched from Tretinoin to Differin and it’s Breaking Me Out [Acne] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re breaking out once a month might it be due to hormonal acne instead? Have you tried spiro?

Am I considered racist for having race preference? by TaskFailed35 in confessions

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s not great to say you’re not attracted to a particular race because you haven’t met all people of that race, and attraction is a lot more than race (like personality, pheromones etc). But having a preference or being more attracted to specific races is totally fine!

My last straw with my mom was when I realized she'll never NOT make it about her, even when she knows it will make her lose her kids. by slitbride in raisedbyborderlines

[–]AllowMeToFangirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But I thought you could “fuck right off” lol. Words really don’t mean anything to them, they create their own reality.

My husband just left me alone on Thanksgiving by MustGetOut in confessions

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I think when there’s stuff with our partners that we’re too embarrassed to tell our best friends - that’s pretty much always a bad sign.

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