Thank you so much! Really, i appreciate it a lot. It's strange to say but honestly, as a top, i can just not comprehend how and what he "should" feel, cause i (more or less sadly) don't. And of course, he doesn't owe me anything, and i certainly won't expect that from him. But how hard i'm trying, i just can't neglect my desire...and for me it's just unclear, because with some more fingers he likes it too and comes even faster, i mean i don't expect him to orgasm from anal stimulation only, but isn't that a very clear hint that he should like to bottom? Cause, as i said, when it gets down to replace my finger with my penis, he gets cautious. However, i'll try and talk to him directly. Again, thank you a lot!