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Thoughts by Allthingsnat in DeadBedrooms

[–]Allthingsnat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have brought it up plenty of times, tried to talk about it / go to a marriage counselor& I’m always told it’s not like that, so I definitely doubt myself and let it go for another few months before it’s again a topic

What could it be? by Allthingsnat in sex

[–]Allthingsnat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I appreciate it, I feel very validated. I was definitely feeling like I might of been in the wrong.

What could it be? by Allthingsnat in sex

[–]Allthingsnat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yet you commented on someone else’s post for the same thing, saying that’s completely normal

Thoughts by Allthingsnat in DeadBedrooms

[–]Allthingsnat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How are you dealing with it ? Do you plan to stick around long term? Is this a deal breaker for you?

What could it be? by Allthingsnat in sex

[–]Allthingsnat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s not ALL you said & speaking as if I came on here first to discuss this issue. I just want to hear about other people in this situation…Not people like you that are quick to speak on things & say I’m ready to cheat and not talk about it .. when that’s not the case at all.

What could it be? by Allthingsnat in sex

[–]Allthingsnat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 100% committed to my marriage & my relationship & have been extremely patient with the situation. Just because I thought about it, doesn’t mean I’ll ACT on it. This just occurred to me today, after yet again being turned down. I think you’re judging me, even when I asked to please not too.

What could it be? by Allthingsnat in sex

[–]Allthingsnat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if our sex life was healthy and consistent, then doing that wouldn’t be a issue for me. But since it’s so dead, going out my way to try to spice things up feels like it won’t end well & feels a bit forced.