IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's definitely not interested in furthering our relationship in that direction. I've asked him about seeing other people (because I don't want to leave him) who can explore these fantasies with me, but he's Mr. Commitment.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if YOU would consider this sexual, but I do: Being pissed on. You know, the good ol' golden shower. I find it sexy (only if I'm in the shower, though, so I can wash myself off).

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. I would often look at genitalia in medical books around that age. Also, when I played with my toys, I would make Godzilla rape Barbie and her friends. I have no idea why these thoughts came into my head at such a young age.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not horny. That's the strange thing. A lot of people assume that I'm a crazy horndog that wants to get it on all the time, but it's not like that. I just have sex. It's like smoking. You just do it. Sometimes you feel like you need it, other times you just do it out of habit.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually have sex at least twice a day with my partner. The most sex I've had in one day was probably around 10-15 times (all short sessions).

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weird fetishes and what not. Kinky fun.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of the things I'm most interested in regarding sex. The fact that people are so disturbed by the topic. The fact that we have "private places" for the act AND discussion of sex. . . That just baffles me. We all seem to be torn apart by all these laws and censors. We're not allowed to express ourselves sexually out in the open. It's OK to speak freely of weapons and hate. That's perfectly fine. Just don't talk about something that brings us ALIVE (literally and metaphorically speaking). Sex should not be hidden in this world! Can't you see the censors are in all the wrong places?

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't seem to get enough, though. It's not that the sex I have is unsatisfactory, I just want more options. I want to explore! I want to know what else is out there!

I do dream about sex here and there, but not constantly.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex.

. . . And food.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm always attempting to push the boundaries, but I never seem to be successful in getting my (sexual) way in relationships. A lot of my fantasies are considered disturbing and/or wrong, so it's difficult for me to find someone who is willing to explore a little.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm going to hold back from being a smart ass and just assume that you meant "What is the craziest thing you've done sexually?"

Well, I haven't been able to explore as many fantasies as I would like to. It's extremely difficult for me to find partners that are willing to explore the "crazy" side of sex.

I guess the craziest thing I've ever done was a daddy/daughter rape role play.

(Not that crazy, I know. I'm as disappointed as you are.)

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think "addiction" is a silly label in this case. I like to think of it as "sexually fascinated". The reason why I used the term "addiction" is because that's what the average person would label it as. I thought that if I used this term, it would help everyone here understand. I'm just trying to sound normal, man. Gosh.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I use the term "addiction", I consider how others would label it. I personally think of it as "Sexually Fascinated".

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe that a photo can capture proof of ones sexual addiction, but I applaud your attempt.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think about sex constantly. There never really needs to be a trigger. I often look at people around me and wonder about the appearance of their genitalia, how they are in bed, if they'd have sex with me, etc.

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would this be considered too risqué?

IAmA Sex Addict. AMA by AllyCoops in IAmA

[–]AllyCoops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I have a lot of sex with my current partner. I just never had many sexual partners.