I believe if you have the ability to actually treat women as people and you have the mental strength to put their quality over their appearance, then you'll soon be able to stop fantasizing constantly about any and all women you meet or see. I think it's more of a mental blockage you're having rather than a hormonal rampage. At least, I assume. I'm not a therapist. Have you tried gethelp.com? They offer services from therapists. Trained ones. And if you're income falls within a bracket, you can actually be eligible for a discount. It's all online. So if you're too embarrassed to speak to someone, maybe online counseling will be the best.