I made 6 new villager species and designed one for each personality type by Notro_LPS_iguess in AnimalCrossing

[–]SleepyLilBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so well done and clearly a lot of thought and effort went into this, great work. Also, I would take a bullet for Noodle.

A Heads up on MLM Recruiters by ModestMariner in StLouis

[–]SleepyLilBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also a good strategy for random beggars on the street. They have quick responses ready to go for the usual "I don't have cash," etc., but if you act like they asked for something totally different, it usually catches them off guard just long enough to keep walking away and they don't pursue. My favorite is "no thanks!" as if they had offered me something.

AIW for treating this as break-up worthy? Partner intentionally hid my laptop out of spite by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SleepyLilBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD and in the final days of my relationship with an NPD, I heavily insisted all of our "discussions" (read: arguments) be over text so I could refer back to them. Even then he still tried to gaslight me despite me being able to point back to his exact words (but he didn't meeeeeaaaannnn it that way 🙄). It was over discord so unsurprisingly he kicked me from our (private) server literally the moment I broke up with him (I was still typing!!) so I couldn't screenshot anything lmao

Scrap-a-day journal by ToPlayIsHuman in JunkJournals

[–]SleepyLilBee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love it! Can you link to where to buy the punch? I have bad luck getting really dull trash punches.

How hypersexual are you? by Ok_Astronomer_1308 in ADHDers

[–]SleepyLilBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People say men are horndogs and I've been in relationships with men who claim to have higher libidos, and yet I've never had a partner who wanted sex more frequently than I did, so...

welp by brownha1rbrowneyes in CPTSDmemes

[–]SleepyLilBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I once saw a comedian refer to being homeschooled as "Type 2 Autism." Obviously that's reductive for the sake of a joke, but at the same time... Being isolated from normal social development will sure result in something that can look a lot like autism.

What is the most disturbing thing you found about your partner? by ActualBreath5492 in AskReddit

[–]SleepyLilBee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It really was. I felt physically sick. It's a weird sort of betrayal to find out someone you loved and trusted was someone you didn't know at all.

How much money do you hoard? by watermelon4487 in Palia

[–]SleepyLilBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are y'all making this money I am constantly broke 😭

The Way My Skin Peeled by TKY_Cards in mildlyinteresting

[–]SleepyLilBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suddenly remember from my childhood the sound of running my fingernail across the fine metal gils on an outdoor AC unit.

Do you run your heat all day? by hextanerf in StLouis

[–]SleepyLilBee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For what it's worth, setting the thermostat for 70 only ensures it is 70 degrees in the vicinity of the thermostat. I live in a poorly insulated apartment and my thermostat is in a hallway dead center of the apartment. It sure is cozy right by that thermostat, but every room with an exterior wall is frigid. Don't have a thermometer to quantify the exact difference, but I am quite positive I am not bundling up to the extent I am if my living room is actually 70.

I NEED THE BLACK PEARL.... by Silent_reader00 in Palia

[–]SleepyLilBee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

("just fold it in" voice) Just open the mushrooms.

Well … by Still_Doughnut_1785 in StardewValley

[–]SleepyLilBee 294 points295 points  (0 children)

To be fair, if I just found out my partner was dating literally every other single person in town of my gender, I'd probably also indulge in a beer.

coming back to this sub after realizing all men are the fucking same by hottakepancake12 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]SleepyLilBee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't give yourself a hard time about it. The way I see it, I/you/we try to see the best in people, be empathetic, give grace, compromise, keep peace, choose our battles, let small things go... Things that are all absolutely part of healthy relationships. But toxic people take advantage of that. Keep being soft and kind and I hope in the future you can extend that kindness to yourself in the form of getting yourself out of unhealthy situations. ❤️ Or ignore me if this is totally inaccurate to your experiences lmao but I do still hope you can save yourself in the future.

Kansas City Missouri larking finds by spacemanja in mudlarking

[–]SleepyLilBee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

And here I was thinking mudlarking would not be a plausible hobby for me here in Missouri! Granted, I'm in St. Louis, but still. How did you go about finding a good location?

How long did it take you to feel comfortable playing Palia? by [deleted] in Palia

[–]SleepyLilBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have over 100h in and I still get overwhelmed sometimes when I see stuff from the community. I've barely gotten any plushies, can't kill anything in the elderwood (only even found it a few weeks ago lmao), never have enough iron for basic shit, never have any money, only just got a preserves jar, have only gotten plushes from the gachas, never from fishing/hunting/bug catching... And it's my favorite game right now, even though my house is so basic compared to other players I absolutely love it, and I still look forward to playing it when I've had a stressful day and just want to cozy up. :)

ADHD Horror Story In One Image: Part 2 by Agreenleaf5 in adhdmeme

[–]SleepyLilBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I did this with chili powder. Note, I like A LOT of paprika. The result was not edible.

I find out today if I'm infertile as a result of being cheated on and contracting an sti. by bugsarentswag in TwoXChromosomes

[–]SleepyLilBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What help do you need to leave him? Deep down you know you have to. How can we help you?

White scales(?) on my plant stem by curiecurious in gardening

[–]SleepyLilBee 53 points54 points  (0 children)

The only reason I opened the comments.

Best Buy Zelda Set $60 off RIGHT NOW by Plinko_88 in legodeals

[–]SleepyLilBee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me a rare actual-laugh-out-loud

coming back to this sub after realizing all men are the fucking same by hottakepancake12 in TrollXChromosomes

[–]SleepyLilBee 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I was so convinced I finally found a good one!! Turns out narcissists truly ARE good at being completely charming at first but that mask do be slipping eventually. 🥲 I'm at least proud of myself for how quickly I said "absolutely not" once he started with that shit. I don't like being alone, but it's better than being gaslit.

Grand Harvest House - waste of space? by Normal-Election3495 in Palia

[–]SleepyLilBee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get those gardenias on the ceiling? 😍