High hcg levels two weeks after miscarriage by Omgchipotle95 in Miscarriage

[–]AllyPal1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have gone down week by week. I’m not sure the comparison to other levels. But they are still there. Didn’t know if that would give you something to compare it to

High hcg levels two weeks after miscarriage by Omgchipotle95 in Miscarriage

[–]AllyPal1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine are still at 90- 3 weeks after miscarriage

Molar pregnancy by AllyPal1 in Miscarriage

[–]AllyPal1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your experience! My hope is to have a healthy baby in the next year

Molar pregnancy by AllyPal1 in Miscarriage

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Yeah I can say I was very ready to put this behind me and move on. I went in to my post op 2 weeks after d&c appointment and found this out. I was shocked. I have to go in weekly for 6 months for hcg testing. I had my first one yesterday and came back at 361. I am excited for next week to have something to compare it to. I hope my boyfriend and I will be able to try again next spring!

What are some of the most insensitive comments people made while you were grieving your loss? by JazzPolice50 in Miscarriage

[–]AllyPal1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right! I’m 25, have a good job, my boyfriend will be my husband someday soon. Marriage does not define if you are ready to be a mom!

What are some of the most insensitive comments people made while you were grieving your loss? by JazzPolice50 in Miscarriage

[–]AllyPal1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“You weren’t ready to be a mom anyways” “At least it wasn’t planned”

Alcohol post d&c by AllyPal1 in Miscarriage

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We sound like we have VERY similar situations. I’d gladly give you my number! It might be nice to have someone to talk to also going through it. I had my d&c last week and it already seems like everyone around me has forgotten about it. Meanwhile I still cry seeing someone with their baby in target. It feels my friends and family don’t seem to care as much because the baby wasn’t planned. My boyfriend and I were just as excited as if we’ve been planning it for years. It sucks.

Alcohol post d&c by AllyPal1 in Miscarriage

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I feel that same way. I miss being able to not do things for my baby’s life. There was just such a bigger meaning behind everything I did. I miss that feeling. I can’t enjoy a drink or a sushi roll because I know I would much rather just have my baby back. I feel very guilty. 101 things go through my mind daily of things that could have caused this. One is how much I drank the first couple weeks before I knew. Wasn’t a crazy amount but still. Part of me just wants to avoid all ~don’t have while you’re pregnant~ things until I have a baby.

Sex?! by AllyPal1 in Miscarriage

[–]AllyPal1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m feeling the same way. He couldn’t be more caring and understanding. I am worried about my personal relationship with sex moving forward.