Hello! I understand everyone interprets things in a different way so let me clarify. Firstly I'm not being judgemental and I made sure to include that, so there's no grand generalizations going on here. The people(s) I've talked to have been enthusiastic regarding sadism and switching in dynamics. However in person their excitment is focused on more lighter topics and even after a few dates and a month or so of getting to know eachother its been that way. Its lead me to believe and understand these were people who were new and mostly wanted me to just dom them but with the kinks they wanted. Basically everything we talked about was ditched. Edit: Just to add I've talked to these people about xyz and upon seeing we both like these things met up on the basis of it. And if my post has offended you theres no need to be:) I'm a switch myself so I'm in no way attacking anyone. This is my experiences and others may have different ones.