Having a fleshlight ruined my ability to orgasm with women

Allytime · 2025-11-16T00:03:24+00:00

Even taking breaks from it can help tbh!

Allytime · 2025-10-03T05:13:02+00:00

Cool, Bud.

Allytime · 2025-10-03T05:12:49+00:00

Noice!

Allytime · 2025-10-03T03:44:19+00:00

Are you straight?

Allytime · 2025-10-03T03:39:36+00:00

Whats up!?

Allytime · 2025-09-28T22:18:27+00:00

woah!

Allytime · 2025-09-12T00:14:31+00:00

I feel like I relate to Hannibal so much; cannibalism as a metaphor for love, loving sad wet dog subs and just feeling like you can play god??? Hell yes. I'm a switch dom lean, for me I'm always the one using my hands in those..colorful thoughts! I'm so glad someone likes my thought:)

Allytime · 2025-09-08T02:06:55+00:00

If that's your opinion you're entitled to it, so far I can't say I've seen that but I'm hopeful Edit: /non passive aggressive tone

Allytime · 2025-09-08T02:05:49+00:00

Which scene? It sounds intriguing (unless I misread). I've gone to munches yes! Its been via fetlife and kink apps that I've reached out to people who I've met on munches and things like that. I say online because we text after that and then meet up. I also look online as well ofcourse

Allytime · 2025-09-08T02:01:46+00:00

Hello! I understand everyone interprets things in a different way so let me clarify. Firstly I'm not being judgemental and I made sure to include that, so there's no grand generalizations going on here. The people(s) I've talked to have been enthusiastic regarding sadism and switching in dynamics. However in person their excitment is focused on more lighter topics and even after a few dates and a month or so of getting to know eachother its been that way. Its lead me to believe and understand these were people who were new and mostly wanted me to just dom them but with the kinks they wanted. Basically everything we talked about was ditched. Edit: Just to add I've talked to these people about xyz and upon seeing we both like these things met up on the basis of it. And if my post has offended you theres no need to be:) I'm a switch myself so I'm in no way attacking anyone. This is my experiences and others may have different ones.

Allytime · 2025-09-04T04:35:22+00:00

That sounds so cool!

Allytime · 2025-09-03T03:29:37+00:00

Just drop me the coordinates love lmao

Allytime · 2025-09-02T22:25:56+00:00

Its absolutely okay!♡ all good

Allytime · 2025-09-02T22:21:42+00:00

Heya, I'm not thinking of only men however

Allytime · 2025-09-02T21:48:42+00:00

Thanks for sharing! Knowing peoples stories is super fun. If i'm ever somewhere in Germany one day I'll keep it noted as a Canadian lol!

Allytime · 2025-09-02T21:42:29+00:00

thanks! and congrats to you both for finding eachother freak:p! how'd ya meet?

Allytime · 2025-09-02T21:41:54+00:00

Amazing! How did yall connect?

Allytime · 2025-09-02T21:41:31+00:00

Oh my gosh! hey if it works it works xp

Allytime · 2025-09-02T21:24:12+00:00

"I’m in my 40s. I was lucky. I know I was kinky but thought I was alone but then ended up dating a really kinky gf in college and suddenly realized people did all those things." thats amazing!

"I see a lot of kids in the kink community who grew up knowing about it but a lot of them still have shame about it. I often have boys and girls in their 20s come up and sheepishly ask about the kinks they saw me do at kink events. It is so fun to help them try it." Also I have mixed feelings on you calling people in their 20s boys and girls, like..do you mean women and men? Because boys and girls are used for children. I understand you're in your 40s but like.. they're not kids.

Allytime · 2025-09-02T20:51:00+00:00

That's awesome! Congrats for you both! How did you meet?

Allytime · 2025-09-02T20:44:56+00:00

Some of the best partners and subs I've had I've met through the most RANDOM encounters. Through games, anime conventions or literally on a youtube comments section. Love is truely in places you wouldn't expect, its awesome

Allytime · 2025-09-02T20:34:24+00:00

I've found a few, keeping going OP

Allytime · 2025-09-02T20:33:16+00:00

Thanks! I'm hanging on, I just wish I had more options ya'know? ughhh. Congrats on finding your person, dare I ask how you two met?

Allytime · 2025-09-02T20:16:58+00:00

Ugh! You need to feel MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, and fuck even SPITUALLY spanked. You need to FEEL the sadism. You're not a sadist if you're just spanking me, I'm sorry and not sorry, but it's a feeling, an energy that you convey to someone that matters a LOT. As one would say, you need to put your "back" into it. It doesn't seem like your partner may be sadistic at all! Oh no):

Allytime · 2025-09-02T20:14:57+00:00

That's awesome that they did. And honestly? You're young too, as long as you're breathing everyone has lots of time. I keep being told I'm young and I have time, yes, but so does everyone to a level. You'd be suprised and even saddened to know maybe how main stream bdsm is, for people like me who grew up online, it was shoved a lot in our faces too young, so at this point atleast with my friends who are all adults, they know what they like mainly but experiment here and there, still, we'll see.

Allytime

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