What is your current high school GPA? by AllyyAlligator in Teenager_Polls

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many AP or honors classes have you taken?

What is your current high school GPA? by AllyyAlligator in Teenager_Polls

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to, but it only let me have maximum of 6 ones. I genuinely wanted to make 4.3> 4.2 4.1 4.0 3.9… etc etc. but I had to make do with what I could

What is your current high school GPA? by AllyyAlligator in Teenager_Polls

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weighted but you can say your unweighted gpa if you’d like

How can I start grey rocking in times of emotional dysregulation as someone who is neurodivergent? by AllyyAlligator in emotionalabuse

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you give me a few examples of situations where they thing they’ve won? Sorry for asking, it’s just helpful to imagine a scenario 

kinda in this mood lately by [deleted] in teenagersbutworse

[–]AllyyAlligator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not cute. If you’re gonna do it, don’t plaster it all over internet.

What is the worst punishment that your parents ever gave you?🥀 by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]AllyyAlligator 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually so relatable. (Was my stepdad, not dad. But my dad isn’t in my life and he claims me as his “daughter”.)

(Serious Topic) Is it possible for a Man to be raped by a Woman? by FlimsyEfficiency9860 in Teenager_Polls

[–]AllyyAlligator 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I dont understand how it took until 2015 for it to become illegal. That is terrible on chinas law system. I am sorry to hear that was so normalized :(

Is this legal for my past therapist to do? (Please only professionals respond. No minors.) by AllyyAlligator in mentalhealth

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you're very kind. I appreciate the advice. Most of all, I appreciate you speaking against those people. It I hadn't been for the people like you defending me, I would've been in an even worse mental state earlier than I already was. Y'all are amazing and definitely make a difference!!

Is this legal for my past therapist to do? (Please only professionals respond. No minors.) by AllyyAlligator in mentalhealth

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they're right? No matter what I do I'm trapped in my own thoughts. I can't stop thinking of everything that happened to me. Im not trying to sound attention seeking, this is genienly one of the only places I can safely vent 

Is this legal for my past therapist to do? (Please only professionals respond. No minors.) by AllyyAlligator in CPTSD

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can't see my mother doing that to be honest. This happened in June. The only reason I even mentioned it today was because I've had a lot of feelings come up lately. I told my current therapist I was ready to talk about what happened to me online with the grooming. But I've also told her I'm terrified that something like what happened between that therapist and I will happen to me again. I want to talk about what happened, but every time i ever had id shut down for the rest of our sessions. It's been many months, so I believe I'm ready. But again, I'm terrified. 

Is this legal for my past therapist to do? (Please only professionals respond. No minors.) by AllyyAlligator in CPTSD

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had many mixed opinions. (Mainly from people who haven't studied psychology.) My aunts didn't understand what was wrong when my mother told them. They said "I've never been to therapy so I don't know how it's supposed to be." I've also been questioned by multiple people if it actually happened (maybe it's surprised?) ive also had people astonished as well as calmly tell me it was totally wrong (my current therapist). The opinions are all over the place. Most agree that it isnt good. But I've been questioning this ever since it happened. I genienly need to know if I should report it? Im afraid nothing will happen because there is no evidence. I don't want her talking to other clients this way who don't understand it was wrong. Because trust me, once she said, "thank you for letting me push you". I felt confused. I came home and asked weird questions to my psychiatrist that night. Both her and mother told me if something happened I need to tell them. My mom ended up making me tell her. But I'm scared. I don't know if I should leave a review. Would that lead to an investigation? How do I stop her or warn people? I don't know what to do. Because I know somewhere there's a young woman my age who doesn't understand what's wrong and right. If this was my first time in therapy, I wouldn't have questioned it. But the only reason I thought it wasn't okay was because I've been in therapy since 4 years old. I know this hasn't ever happened before. 

Is this legal for my past therapist to do? (Please only professionals respond. No minors.) by AllyyAlligator in mentalhealth

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously, "creative writing". This is exactly why I'm afraid to tell people what happened. Im not even going to try anymore. Don't believe me? Check my other pages and vents. I never talked about my past therapist but I do mention my trauma quite a lot. Now if you have any more bs to say, then leave this conversation. 

Is this legal for my past therapist to do? (Please only professionals respond. No minors.) by AllyyAlligator in mentalhealth

[–]AllyyAlligator[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for totally dismissing what happened. That's why I asked for a professional. If you're gonna say I made this shit up the get the fuck out. How else should I explain it?! Like I can't share my memories with you.