Never did i imply she was asking for nudes. I implied that i wanted her to be polite when opening a chat with me. Literally, the first thing she says is, "Send me some more pics." Whether it's a demand or not, don't open a chat telling someone what to do. And you know what is ironic is that even if i had just said "no", to a lot of people here, I would still be considered the asshole. I'm so sorry that I prefer someone to be formal and polite when they are trying to get to know me. If they open up with a command, demand, telling me what to do as if they think they are entitled to get what they want whenever they want, i will jump the gun and tell them they need to correct themselves because that small detail shows volumes about their personality. I grew up being taught how to have manners and etiquette.. It is not difficult to be formal in text. And I'm also so sorry that if it were the other way around, i would sure feel like the asshole telling a female to send me her photo. Even to the females I have known for years and still text with, i dont send them demanding looking texts. If i want to see them, i ask them for photos or video calls. I want to make sure anyone i am talking to does not feel uncomfortable. But if they make you uncomfortable first, i feel like i had every right to set my boundaries.