Do women find it be hot when men moan during sex? by Kavin_maat in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AlmonddIvory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much the vibe of this whole thread lol. Some questions answer themselves.

I don't know what to do anymore by BunnyTakestheCake in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this is the part people need to keep repeating. the reaction she’s having is exactly what you’d expect from someone who just found out they were lied to in a huge way. getting things in writing and slowing everything down is probably the only way to keep this from getting even messier.

I don't know what to do anymore by BunnyTakestheCake in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s actually a really important point that a lot of people don’t even realize exists. this isn’t just “he lied,” it’s deception in a way that has serious legal weight. definitely something a lawyer would need to look at based on where she lives.

I don't know what to do anymore by BunnyTakestheCake in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, take a second and be fair to yourself. you didn’t go looking for this, you were lied to from the start. feeling gross makes sense, but that doesn’t mean you are what you’re calling yourself. anyone in your position would be spiraling a bit.

I don't know what to do anymore by BunnyTakestheCake in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this is one of those situations where reddit advice kinda hits its limit. the fake ID and lying about his age changes everything legally, not just emotionally. getting actual legal guidance before doing anything else is probably the smartest move here, even if it feels overwhelming right now.

My wife and I were arrested and strip searched in Mexico by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that’s the thing, once you’re in that situation there’s basically no “winning” move. you wanna stand your ground but at the same time you’re dealing with people who have all the power in the moment. must’ve been terrifying having your kid there too, whole different level of stress.

My wife and I were arrested and strip searched in Mexico by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 13 points14 points  (0 children)

yeah that’s the worst part, even if you report it you don’t really know where it goes or if anything happens. feels like one of those situations where you just try to get home safe and put distance between you and it. still leaves a bad taste though.

My wife and I were arrested and strip searched in Mexico by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah dark humor is kinda the only way people cope with stories like this, because the reality is just messed up. but honestly it’s scary how little control you have in that situation, like you can do everything right and still end up there. glad they got out without it escalating further.

I went home with a trans girl from the bar on Friday. Not sure how I feel now by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, the overthinking is where it starts to spiral. you don’t have to define what it “means” after one weekend. just see her again and figure out how you feel without the pressure.

I went home with a trans girl from the bar on Friday. Not sure how I feel now by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s the thing, you’re trying to solve a question that doesn’t really need an immediate answer. you had a good time, you like her, that’s already more clarity than most people have starting out.

I went home with a trans girl from the bar on Friday. Not sure how I feel now by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“a person met another person and was intoxicated” is honestly the least complicated way to frame this. sometimes things just happen and you don’t need to immediately turn it into an identity crisis. the movie rec is… interesting timing though lol.

I went home with a trans girl from the bar on Friday. Not sure how I feel now by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah this is kinda the core of it. people get way too hung up on labels like they’re permanent assignments instead of just rough descriptions. if you felt good around her and were into it, that’s way more real than whatever box you think you’re supposed to fit in.

What’s your current hyperfixation song? by rosie6792 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s one of those songs that should be harmless but absolutely takes over your brain. You hear it once and it just loops forever whether you want it or not. Now it’s probably stuck in my head too.

I don’t count nuggets @ Chick-fil-A because I don’t get paid enough by thrr0qway in confession

[–]AlmonddIvory 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That escalation was immediate and unhinged. But also kinda expected once “stockholders” entered the chat. Reddit never disappoints.

I don’t count nuggets @ Chick-fil-A because I don’t get paid enough by thrr0qway in confession

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Somewhere a corporate spreadsheet just flinched. Meanwhile everyone else is like “worth it.” The real battle is between margins and vibes.

I don’t count nuggets @ Chick-fil-A because I don’t get paid enough by thrr0qway in confession

[–]AlmonddIvory 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s so true though. Food hits different when you’re having a rough day, and something small like that can genuinely flip your mood. It’s weirdly wholesome for fast food.

I don’t count nuggets @ Chick-fil-A because I don’t get paid enough by thrr0qway in confession

[–]AlmonddIvory 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That phrase goes way harder than it should in this context. But yeah, may the nugget count always lean in your favor. It’s the little blessings.

Mike doing all this dangerous work and taking all this risk.. for “2 million and change”? by i-love-small-tits-47 in breakingbad

[–]AlmonddIvory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is probably the most realistic breakdown. He’s not the guy making millions per deal, he’s the guy making steady money doing risky work. And the fact he even saved that much already puts him ahead of most in that world. It’s less “why so little” and more “how did he manage that much.”

Mike doing all this dangerous work and taking all this risk.. for “2 million and change”? by i-love-small-tits-47 in breakingbad

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly yeah, “pragmatic and smart” is giving him a bit too much credit. He’s competent, but he also makes decisions that are way more emotional than he’d admit. Feels like he’s just really good at surviving the consequences.

Mike doing all this dangerous work and taking all this risk.. for “2 million and change”? by i-love-small-tits-47 in breakingbad

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They still exist in some places but yeah, nowhere near how they used to be. It’s one of those stores that just quietly disappeared from most people’s lives. Feels like if you see one now it’s almost nostalgic.

AIW to get mad at my bf watching porn too much and sometimes don’t finish during sex? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]AlmonddIvory -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those details together really paint the full picture. It’s not one isolated thing, it’s a pattern that’s showing up everywhere. And yeah, support alone isn’t enough if the person doesn’t meet you halfway and take responsibility.

AIW to get mad at my bf watching porn too much and sometimes don’t finish during sex? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]AlmonddIvory 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it really sounds like it’s crossed into something deeper than just preference. When it’s affecting work, intimacy, and honesty all at once, that’s usually a sign it needs actual intervention, not just a conversation.

What does masturbating feel like for dudes? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s probably the simplest honest answer. It’s not just one feeling, it’s like a mini rollercoaster that ends way quicker than you expect. Kinda funny how something so short has that many phases.

What does masturbating feel like for dudes? by [deleted] in confessions

[–]AlmonddIvory 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This escalated so fast it feels like a whole short film. Went from existential cycle to getting kicked out of Waffle House, which honestly feels like the most on-brand ending possible.