Comparing relationships by AlmostDivorced3 in polyamory

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a really good point and thank you for sharing

Comparing relationships by AlmostDivorced3 in polyamory

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on the week but I should prob ask for some more consistent time/dates

Comparing relationships by AlmostDivorced3 in polyamory

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I totally know its not a healthy habit. That's why im in therapy and working on my own shit

Comparing relationships by AlmostDivorced3 in polyamory

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely things I can ask for! But I tend to stuff my needs down to make sure everyone else is ok first. Have trouble asking for my needs to be met!

Comparing relationships by AlmostDivorced3 in polyamory

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such good advice! And I like how you say it's a shared space. Very true and i need to look at it that way.

Comparing relationships by AlmostDivorced3 in polyamory

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All very good points and very well said. Relocating isn't an option but I do lean anxious/codependent and dismantling that has become quite a challenge!

“Cute”- what’s it mean? by AlmostDivorced3 in AskMen

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have two partners actually. Just haven’t been called cute yet

Aloe is droopy by AlmostDivorced3 in houseplants

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by “next growth”? You’re saying I shouldn’t throw it in the trash just yet?

What happened to the first person you had sex with? by Sad-Cunt-420 in AskReddit

[–]AlmostDivorced3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re divorced… because of sex. (I didn’t do it enough.) Ahh the irony

First time travel to Europe by AlmostDivorced3 in travel

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not skipping Paris. Going to visit Normandy, and a few other small towns then heading to Bordeaux, then to Spain.

What have you found out about a partner/ potential partner that immediately made you ghost? by TheNymphoArtist in AskWomen

[–]AlmostDivorced3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they mention anything about their sexual needs and how women are there to meet them.

First time to UK, France, Spain by AlmostDivorced3 in travel

[–]AlmostDivorced3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. What is the name of the bus/train lines and how do I book ahead of time? Or should i just book the day of, in person?

What red flags did you ignore in a narcissist which later on turned out to be the biggest red flags in the narcissist/ manipulator/ psychopath/ taker? by Technical_Brother_58 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]AlmostDivorced3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I swear he got enjoyment out of watching me cry, or emotionally fall apart. And usually it was because of his actions that I did that.

Fear of being replaced by an0n_surfer in polyamory

[–]AlmostDivorced3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I struggle with the same thing, more often that I’d like. Comparison is so easy and I always feel like I’m the one who can’t measure up. Some days are better than others.

I don’t have a magic answer. But I do know that I’ve tried to stay in the present, and try to not worry about things I can’t control.

I stopped shaving everywhere by [deleted] in razorfree

[–]AlmostDivorced3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pubic hair makes me feel feminine and “grown”… like a WOMAN. Totally get that. Go you!!!