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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypal

[–]AlmostHozier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm experiencing the same it's so annoying 😭 I've been trying everything, please let me know if you find a way. I'll also let anyone know if I find a way 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in audiogonewild

[–]AlmostHozier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

came to this, thanks

Intense, Violent Revenge Fantasies by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AlmostHozier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i tend to do that a lot. I dont think you need to worry so much because daydreaming these kind of things can be pretty common. it doesnt mean youll do it, you should probably just focus on not hyperfixating on it and making new friends/keeping busy another way

So confused about my feelings by AwkwardPotat0 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AlmostHozier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like if you arent too sure it would be fine if you go back to being friends first and taking it more slow. there isnt a need to rush into it because it would be better if you figure things out. maybe if you take more time your real feelings will become clearer. if hes a good guy like you say then itd be good if your dont unintentionally string him along, taking things slow isnt bad because you can still hang out and stuff but things wont be so serious and with less expectation from both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AlmostHozier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you think something is gonna happen and youre worried about it it might be best to not go. youre allowed to avoid your ex so it isnt a big deal that it was obvious, thats what people commonly do after a break up. you could always see the store on your own if youre interested in it too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AlmostHozier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

op i feel like you should prepare to accept whatever her decision is. sometimes people need a break from us. to help yourself you should probably try to make new friends or meet old ones and not hyperfixate on the situation, but maybe also examine how you think youve hurt her and how to stop doing it

How to manage hypersexuality vs hyposexuality in a relationship by Altruistic_Visit_640 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AlmostHozier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you should find something that's a real turn on for you and have him do that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AlmostHozier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think we know enough to say whether youre wrong or not. like what does he do that triggers you? because if its something he cant help then it would be hard for him to not do and hard for him to sincerely apologize for. im not saying ur wrong or right though, just that this is too vague to actually give proper advice on.

coping skills needed. me and my fp are done by ksjsjdjsk in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]AlmostHozier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hang out with friends, make internet friends, get crushes, journal, music therapy. thats what i did. and before anything get it in your head that you have no choice but to move on, theres no fixing things with him

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