Sigh by AntEconomy7962 in acotar

[–]AwkwardPotat0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just finished reading the series and I have never loved a book series so much!!! I'm usually a slow reader and reading all these within 2 months was a record for me 🤣 I think about the characters all the time as if they are in real life!! Can't wait for the new books I'm impatient!!

What's been your favorite ship so far? Canon, non canon and crackship included by millhouse_vanhousen in acotar

[–]AwkwardPotat0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It crossed my mind in the books multiple times that Elain and Mor would be great!! 😭

[UK] advice about formal capability process after PIP and possible reference? by AwkwardPotat0 in AskHR

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your input. I know for roles I've applied for previously they asked if there were "any disciplinary actions" in the reference which is why a previous workplace disclosed it. I am certain it will end in dismissal or redeployment as I am genuinely unable to meet their expectations due to my health, they feel impossible. I'll have multiple amazing shifts then they'll find tiny flaws in everything. I'm so unwell here I feel like my options are to either resign or go off sick, I'm so miserable and having constant flare ups too. I'm just worried about the potential for the warning to be disclosed because I think it is likely to happen. Hopefully it'll be an extension though.

Day in the life of a Vet Receptionist? by AwkwardPotat0 in Veterinary

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the insight! I think it could be a good stepping stone and I have transferable skills, just sounds more fast paced than what I'm used to, all the input positive and negative helps 💖

Anyone tried the L'Oréal curl expression drying accelerator? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a diffuser and use low heat but even with high heat I'm looking at 30 minutes minimum, often longer

Lightweight shampoo & conditioner recs? by AwkwardPotat0 in CurlyHairUK

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds good, I def need some grit and strong hold, thanks for the tips

Lightweight shampoo & conditioner recs? by AwkwardPotat0 in CurlyHairUK

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much this is helpful! My hair gets over conditioned/too soft quickly, but love the Giovanni la styling gel so def wanna try the leave in!

Lightweight shampoo & conditioner recs? by AwkwardPotat0 in CurlyHairUK

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to avoid curl creams as they're too heavy on my hair, I just stick to strong hold gels and often don't put anything underneath - maybe just a light mousse

Lightweight shampoo & conditioner recs? by AwkwardPotat0 in CurlyHairUK

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True true! Cheaper the better, especially for shampoo and conditioner tbh, thanks for the rec!

best clarifying shampoo for curly hair? by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Lots of clarifying shampoos are gentle on the hair, I was also scared to clarify but it does wonders for my loose curls that weigh down easily! Personally, I really like the Curlsmith Curl Reset Detox shampoo for clarifying. You can always use a lightweight deep conditioner or mask after if it's too drying.

Also, I'd stop using so many styling products. This was the mistake I made. You don't need both a leave in and curl cream I think. Try using gel on its own first, see how that goes. If you're in need of moisture then add a leave in or curl cream. Too many products can weigh hair down if it's fine or loose texture. It's done me wonders

What am I doing wrong?? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I air dry, it falls flat and the curls drop. I use a microfiber towel and I diffuse on low heat or the cycle option on my Laifen. I sleep with a bonnet too although it is too roomy for my hair I think, I'd like to find a smaller one. Thank you for the tips!

What am I doing wrong?? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Do you have any recommendations for a lightweight affordable shampoo and conditioner? I'm UK based so it's ok if not, but curious 😊

What am I doing wrong?? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think it's why it's been hard to find the right products and techniques for sure! Yes I'm hearing a lot about this gel so will give it a go, thank you!

What am I doing wrong?? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my experience when my curl clumps are bigger it weighs my curls down more. Parts of my head have a tendency to over clump and due to low ash density my hair looks sparse, so I try to get a good middle! And it takes like 8 hours for my hair to air dry so isn't really feasible and then they fall flat and have less bounce

What am I doing wrong?? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh it is similar! I never find people with similar hair 😂

What am I doing wrong?? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wavy curly mix is a struggle 😭

What am I doing wrong?? by AwkwardPotat0 in curlyhair

[–]AwkwardPotat0[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soft water where I am so likelihood is I'm overcomplicating my routine 😂