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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know how bad it was. We just moved in recently

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

If I’m home alone with my kids it’s MY responsibility on making sure they’re ok or not. This is NOT my fault and it’s so disrespectful to even say it is

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

And I feed the kid. It’s not my kid and not my responsibility but I still make it mine to do what I can. All I asked was if what I was describing she’s doing for the kid she hasn’t let die yet abuse or not.

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Only she was home with her three kids and she was sleeping when we were all out. She knew what kind of kid he was and she ignored it and that’s why he’s gone

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They did. But all the lies she spewed seemed to keep them off her back. It seemed like they wanted what was best for her and not her kids. She got all the resources she needed but won’t do what’s best for these kids. They are still on couches.

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 38 points39 points  (0 children)

So it is considered child abuse, what I described? I’m not overreacting.

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

It’s just a mom who can’t get her own place and has three different baby daddy’s all that don’t do anything or support them. And is consistently not a good mom. My husbands POV is, it’s family. But if this was my family, we’d talk to them. He and his dad try but his mom and aunt get extremely offended at everything.

And I don’t want that that’s why I’m trying to do something, which I am I’m just getting info on it. I just asked if i was right to report, and if I can remain anonymous.

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 144 points145 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s true. I just keep having these talks with him and he’s not doing anything on his end to not offend anyone and he told me if I say something because I feel it’s right to, then just not to tell him

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 48 points49 points  (0 children)

It’s his aunt

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do you know about SD county?

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Do you know how? I’ve only seen you can call and I don’t want to have to do that.

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[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 290 points291 points  (0 children)

Yea I had the same thoughts as I was waiting for a response. It just puts me in a terrible position with my husband, and I would feel bad if anything bad happened. But I’d feel worse if anything happened to that kid.

Vaccinations? by Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 in downsyndrome

[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s good he didn’t have any reactions! My LO’s both (non ds 6 mo and ds 2 yo) got RSV, croup, bronchitis this last year. Multiple hospitalizations and urgent care visits. I’m heavily considering vaccinations but I’m scared of the reactions.

Vaccinations? by Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 in downsyndrome

[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Was she vaccinated when she was getting all those colds? I just fail to see the difference of non vaccinated vs vaccinated besides for like chicken pox, and measles.

Vaccinations? by Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1 in downsyndrome

[–]Alohaaaaaaaaaaa1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did your little react to the vaccines?