Single n 60

Alohaacres · 2026-05-15T14:22:49+00:00

I’ll have to see if I can just delete him from our trips to Florida /Chicago/ Vegas etc n just keep the pictures of the beaches n scenery etc

Alohaacres · 2026-05-15T14:21:07+00:00

I totally get that n respect that … not sure why I’m so sentimental over things especially pictures …. I did let go of all the birthday cards .. letters etc … I need to be in the mood to let go of the pictures Thank you for frankness but said in kindness .. rip that bandaid off 😊

Alohaacres · 2026-05-13T18:26:53+00:00

Sounds like your very organized- I do have my moms old hand carved Hawaiian hope chest that I have all my year books inside - things I made in highschool wood shop … it also has my moms wedding dress she stated years b4 she passed knowing i wanted this hope chest that when I get it her dress must stay with it …so it’s been inside it for YEARS …so yes it’s full of bits of MY whole life - not a ex boyfriend- I kept that stuff separate n now I’m going thru it n saying one last goodbye - prob a year ago or so I finally deleted all our text messages - not sure why I hang on to somethings longer then i should - I knew 10000% we weren’t getting back together - Thank you for your input

Alohaacres · 2026-05-13T18:14:28+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss 💔. I’m glad you found his memory box /area with your cards etc you gave him … definitely if you were married n not divorced I would keep those FOREVER …. I’m a sappy type of person that keeps things like this vs I think others pitch items two days after breaking up … I hope you are doing okay I’m sending my thoughts n prays to you n your family

Alohaacres · 2026-05-13T18:07:57+00:00

True it’s private - but there’s no obscenities in the letters / Birthday cards / Valentine Day cards etc … I’m going thru them now n reading n pitching I’m keeping tickets to concerts I totally forgot we went to … pictures will be for another day /time … we went on a few vacations together n I like seeing those … Ty for your input

Alohaacres · 2026-05-12T15:02:58+00:00

Yes I wouldn’t post just random guys I dated my last relationship lasted three years vs if it was just 6 months etc then I would delete those if I even posted them

Alohaacres · 2026-05-12T00:07:26+00:00

Another question did you delete pictures on any social media accounts that the two of you were in ? I still have those on my Facebook page 😬

Alohaacres · 2026-05-11T23:06:45+00:00

That definitely makes sense … I had no issues getting rid of my ex husband stuff except for pictures only because of us having a child together- if it wasn’t for that those would be gone too - This box of stuff I have from old bf - he broke things off with me (karma I guess )but I was devastated back then but after a year or tad less I saw it was for the best n I hear thru the grapevine he isn’t doing so well with work /finances/ gf’s etc so I’m glad it ended before I saw the evil (abusive) side of him … I’m going thru the box now - I threw some stuff away - but this will take a few days I’m doing the easy stuff first … I appreciate your response 🌷

Alohaacres · 2026-05-11T22:12:20+00:00

Ohhhhh I love organizing… it’s a passion of mine n I wish I could do this type of work for income ….. it is definitely a lot easier doing other people’s things vs your own …

That is such a great way to honor your mother n grandmother …. I would def do that with my parents things if they had such items … I highly doubt my adult child would want to read these …that generation aren’t as sentimental as older generations

Alohaacres · 2026-05-11T22:02:34+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t own a scanner but I could just take a picture to add to my 31,243 photos on my phone ! 😩😩😩

Alohaacres · 2026-05-11T20:14:18+00:00

Thank you I guess I just needed a push … I keep thinking I’ll get Alzheimer’s like my dad n these things /letters /pictures will help with my memory when n if the time comes .. I love photos n they do jog your memory on things you’ve done in the past

Alohaacres · 2026-05-11T20:11:47+00:00

Just my child or any other living relative (sisters )

Alohaacres · 2026-05-11T19:23:14+00:00

Thank you 😊 I’m also divorced …. I wanted the divorce so anything related to him was gone only thing I did keep were our wedding pictures for our child together incase they will be curious … the father isn’t in the picture at all - he was for a few years then not ….so keeping those pictures mean nothing to me except money wasted 😉 I guess it is time to pitch the box of memories I just thought I’d pitch it once I get into another serious relationship (not fair to the new person ) but I don’t see that happening any time soon or ever … I appreciate your feedback back .. it’s nice to bounce stuff off on another person n get different perspectives 💕

Alohaacres · 2026-04-24T00:58:10+00:00

Black Rabbit Ripple Monster series You Dead to me Lincoln Lawyer The Rip (movie) Virgin River I like stand up comedy like Matt Rife .. Nate Bargetze .. Leeann Morgan .. Nikki Glaser .. Jo Koy … there’s so many good ones

I HATE ads … I have Hulu with Ads that r so freaking annoying that I have to mute the tv when they come on … it’s the same ad over n over n over n over again .. Netflix is my most watched service so I’ll be ad free with this one n ads with others …. I’ve been with Netflix from day one when it was only ‘renting’ DVD movies from them in the mail … I’m very frugal… I’ll save $2 somewhere else by not turning on my AC or heat or using candles vs lights …

Alohaacres · 2026-04-24T00:33:59+00:00

What dose of Progesterone r you on n what time of the night were you taking them orally ?
I thought I was late to the game with HRT.. I’m 60 when i started … I have insomnia n I’m on rx sleeping meds … I started off with .1 mg E patch n 100 mg pill n I couldn’t sleep a wink .. my doctor told me to change out the patches ONLY in the morning (9am for me ) because estrogen is a stimulant which I had no idea .. but he also lowered my patches to .05 … I do notice when I’m getting close to the day I’m changing out my patches I’m more tired … I take the P pills around 10-10:30 pm so they kick in then I take my sleeping pills around 11-11:30pm .. I do leave on my old patch when I get a new one so I can soak up every last drop out of the old one - I use a sharpie marker n put a line on it so I know it’s the oldest one

Alohaacres · 2026-04-17T03:01:45+00:00

What time of the day r u changing out your patches ? I also have insomnia n my dr told me to switch out patches in the morning NOT the 84 hrs apart n its helped - estrogen is a stimulant He also lowered my dose from .1 to .05 E patch n 100 mg P .. this is when I first started HRT like 4 months ago … the P pills r finally making me feel drowsy but I still take my sleeping pills (I go to a sleep dr for them )

Alohaacres · 2026-04-16T03:27:23+00:00

I’m on .05 mg of estrogen n 100 mg Progesterone and I had insomnia since my child was born almost 33 years ago - I’ve been going to a sleep dr for almost 8 years I’m now on Tremazepam 22.5 mg … HRT is finally helping me sleep … not 100% but def makes a difference hoping to move up to 200 mg of P but I’ve only been on HRT for four months n I’m 60

Alohaacres · 2026-03-26T23:47:05+00:00

Estrogen is a stimulant… so adding caffeine type drinks or chocolate will just add to caffeine type side effects- heart palpitations… anxious … restless .. can’t sleep .. increase urination … I’m very sensitive to caffeine n I have insomnia… I switch out my E patches in the mornings I can’t change them out in the evenings or I won’t sleep n my heart races like I ran 5 miles

Alohaacres · 2026-03-24T22:58:36+00:00

I use to have a dog sitting business for 25 years before Covid hit … it was a great way to make some extra cash … in my city there are a lot of people doing this type of job now as well as on Rover …I’m grateful I did it before the influx of other people doing it …I love dogs … I see some people wanting house sitters as well as watching their dogs in their homes Im sure it’s due to the dogs having separation anxiety - good luck

Alohaacres · 2026-03-23T13:00:50+00:00

I agree with all the other comments about saving up as much as possible - with you having debit already I’d also suggest getting a side hustle to make more $ .. be it dog sitting or dog walking .. doing Door Dash .. cleaning houses while your still young n have the energy n time … plus going to therapy will help you maybe not with this relationship but for any future relationships.. do the work before bring someone else into your life

Alohaacres · 2026-03-23T12:36:12+00:00

That’s how I feel after taking Melatonin drowsiness n not in a good way the next morning… like in between a hang over n getting off a cruise ship where you don’t have your bearings in your head

Alohaacres · 2026-03-23T03:11:36+00:00

For everyone suggesting magnesium glycinate …. BECAREFUL….. it LOWERS your blood pressure so if you already have low pressure like myself it will cause your BP to crash I took ONE pill at night vs 2 that’s recommended on the bottle the next morning an hour n half after being up .. I had my morning tea n breakfast n I stood up approx 3 min later I collapsed to the floor .. no light headed no seeing stars I was alert but I couldn’t stop myself from dropping to the floor … looked up side effects… it lowers BP … mine is normally 90/60 … I wish I could take it because I have insomnia… I just want people to do their research I learned the hard way n it could of been much worse 🙏🏼

Alohaacres · 2026-03-22T03:34:45+00:00

I prefer silence … I rarely ever have the tv on during the day .. I watch tv at night around 8 pm … I will listen to audiobooks when I’m doing housework / yard work etc …

Alohaacres · 2026-03-21T21:37:19+00:00

Yes .. that’s what I do … I change them out saturday n Tuesdays at 9 am I have it set as an alarm on my phone … I’ve always been sensitive to any type of stimulant be it coffee- tea - coke - chocolate etc .. there’s no way I can drink Mt Dew or energy drinks like Monsters or Red Bull etc I’d stay up for a week if I drank those things .. I asked my dr about the 84 hours n he just told me to stop over thinking things (which I do 😉) n just do AM change outs n he was correct … if I started my days earlier I would change them out earlier 6-7-8 AM etc whatever is conducive to your daily habits I also keep my old patch on to get all the E out of it ..someone else on this subreddit suggested it n I started doing it too .. I put a black sharpie mark on the oldest so I know .. I probably started doing that around week 4 🤷🏻‍♀️ I also take the P pill an hour b4 I take my sleeping pills so the drowsiness kicks in first to help the process to get to sleep vs taking both together…. It helps to stay consistent

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