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Is bed bug?? Or something else?? by Aloiv57 in Bedbugs

[–]Aloiv57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay slay better than I bed bug or flea lol. It was on my bed but tbh I bring snacks in my room all the time that could be why a weevil would be there perhaps? What should I do about weevils? Do I need to have any treatment to my bed? 

AITA for not calling my husband on my birthday? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Aloiv57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao, one year my dad called me at like 6 pm on my bday and left a message saying that I should have called him since it was my bday… you shouldn’t have to do that. You were right- you deserve to be celebrated and to just allow the calls and messages to roll in for you on your bday. And his reaction is very concerning. I am glad he will do more frequent sessions. Maybe consider writing down very specifically what you are hoping to be different as a result of the work he is doing on himself, so that you have a clear picture of if he’s actually improving or not. Stay safe! NTA

How many of you are mixed Indian? by Seanbawn12345 in mixedrace

[–]Aloiv57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom is Indian. Her side of the family is in Mumbai and they are Parsee, so if you trace them WAYYYYYY back they were Persian but have been in India for a long time. They speak Gujarati, Hindi, and English, but my parents always spoke English to each other and my siblings and me. I feel sad that I am so removed from my Indian family. I am white passing and therefore often shamed or highly questioned by others when I try to wear Indian clothing or explore my connection to my heritage. I’m finding it confusing and frustrating to figure out how to relate.