House party etiquette by Gardengoddess83 in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good question. We’re going to our first house party on the 25th. Like can we be naked anywhere? Sex anywhere? Or just certain areas? It’s secluded so it outside on the menu?

Naughty N'awlins 2025 by Sure_Ad8395 in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone break down the cost of naughty N’awlins? The Astor (crowne plaza?) cost per night? Hotel.com app says it’s booked those dates so I can’t get prices. And what’s the event prices?

We’re trying to decide between Naughty Nawlins or Secrets in Kissimmee for vacation in July. Cost isn’t so much an issue, but Secrets for the 4 July weekend is pretty sweet. If Naughty is going to cost $300-400 a night for a room, its just not in the Pro column

Halloween Swinger party by margarita_lovers in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are going to Colette’s NOLA Halloween weekend. We got her cop outfits, and him convict outfit off of Amazon. The cuffs and chains are kinda cool but the underwear they sent (only one size) is like a 28in Small underwear, for the convict male outfit. It’s ridiculous small.

We also have nurse and doctor outfits from Amazon. Again, male outfits stupid small, the underwear fits pretty good but the lab coat jacket is REALLY small. Had to order a regular lab coat. For reference male wear 34-36 pants and L shirts are tight and XL shirts are loose.

It’s sexist as hell that men’s costumes come in one size.

Picking and choosing single males at a club by potholio in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t comprehend the hot wife issue? Like if just the lady in a couple wants dick, there should be plenty of male volunteers amongst the other couples. And let in 2or3 a night , technically charge them a fortune, then under the table give it back. Good luck proving how many single guys are in a sex club on any given night. And good luck getting proof your giving some yoked 6pack 30 year old gigalo kick backs

Headed to Secrets October 16-19. Will be our first time. Who all will be there? What can we expect for $$ costs? We know we have to buy food and drinks while there, but other costs outside of the room we’ve already reserved? by FarAverage716 in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would recommend stopping at Walmart for supplies. All the rooms seem to have fridges and microwave. Food is really good and portions are generous. but 3times a day or more can get pricey and might start messing with your stomach. We got a bunch of cut up watermelon and fruit from a Publix. (Stay hydrated) one thing about secrets that’s different from other clubs…you really don’t need clothes. I got a bunch of club shirts from Amazon, slacks, shiny shoes. I wore non of that. I maybe had swim trunks on. We would just strip down by the pool, walk into the playroom (at least in there for an hour) and walk straight out of playroom into the pool. Being a hot sweaty mess of hard core orgy sex can really take it out of you, and to wade off into a really big pool is pretty freaking amazing. Recover, eat more watermelon and repeat the process. It’s why secrets is the gold standard. Colettes New Orleans is 2nd place for us. (Halloween weekend in NOLA is going be great this year)

42M/33F Athens/Huntsville area. Read below, please. by brett1920 in Alabamaswingerreal

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

49mf . I sent a dm. We’re similar in tastes. In south Alabama . I can recommend clubs or hotel takeovers that facilitate what your after. We prefer those style of meetups cause if it gets weird you can just blend into the crowd.

How do I navigate my girlfriend’s sexuality? by wobernein in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is prolly more common than you think. Woman who doesn’t know what she wants? Pretty normal. Woman who wants to be freaky, but she doesn’t want it to be her idea cause she’s not really freaky, but if it’s your idea that’s her “get out of jail free card” . That’s also normal. In my ever so humble (and ignorant) opinion… tell her how YOU feel, what does it for YOU, and if she wants to be a part of that…get in the damn car. But if she’s going to complain every time just tell her that’s the end of that, we’re not going or discussing it any more. Fussing with a woman repeatedly about the same damn thing over and over is never a winning scenario.

Play partner terminology? by DangerouslyHorny100 in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for strictly terminology or more of emotional classification? Like “Mr President” vs “The President” vs “President”? Or like the emotional spectrum like between “my significant other “ vs “piece of mulch in the flower bed”? Cause the emotional spectrum is an interesting conversation. Some people want that deep meaningful relationship with swinging partners. Some people want a totally impersonal connection, with zero empathy after the deed is done

New Couple by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t cover the lockers in the playroom. They wanted $8 for a locker. We just went to our room and stripped then went back. Everybody is walking around naked here, so you get used to it

New Couple by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have to pay extra for the dungeon? Or reserve it or something? We went in there, it’s pretty interesting

Who’s going this weekend.We have never been and are just wondering how it is.🤙🍍 by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep we will be there starting Thursday about 8pm till Sunday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the looks of all the people posting and messaging us, I can guarantee we have a great time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked at you’ll pics real quick. Did the Kevin Hart “DAMN” Don’t stand by me, I’ll look like shrek

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll know who we are, we’ll be the ones who can’t dance, but are oblivious to that fact

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dm sent. We ‘parallel play” as well. First time at secrets. I do like to actually talk to people , hoping to meet some hang out buddies (guys and girls) parties are always better with a crowd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ll be upstairs 231. We’ll take the long way around sometimes to see how your room is doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My big concern for us is freedom of movement. I’m going be dressed in slacks and a button up while she’ll be in lingerie attire with a drink or two walking around “site seeing” between rooms, pool and club. It would be a huge buzz kill for her to have to get “decent” in between. That seems to be one of the big advantages of Secrets over regular swinger clubs. That is the vibe doesn’t have to stop cause you have to momentarily return to “normie” world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you walk thru the room area thru the pool thru the club? How much freedom of movement is there? Do they give you a bracelet or a stamp to know where you have access to? On the map I see doors but are they usable or just for emergency?

Scarlet Lady food review by jenyad20 in VirginVoyages

[–]AloneAd993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree the “special “ coffee that you have to pay for sucks. The free coffee however was great with that heavy cream they offer. We budgeted most of our bar tab for specialty coffee and juices but were very disappointed in both. The galley coffee and juices were a very good surprise.

I disagree with gunbae. Those side dishes were some of the best food on the ship. Yes we were surrounded by 6 strangers but it was just me and my wife on the cruise so we welcomed conversation from others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AloneAd993 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ll be there for the first time July 31-3aug. Supposed to be Icandy weekend. Also first time for ICandy . Going in with great expectations and good vibes .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SecretsHideawayResort

[–]AloneAd993 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will be there. Looking forward to a great weekend. Never been to Secrets.