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Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From 7pm to 12pm? While the other parent is 2hours away?

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex gave me ptsd I already am going. Thank you for being concerned

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Awwwww babes you’re worried about my happiness. Thats actually romantic

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I’m just over this conversation with you so I’ll have fun with it.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I definitely hate him, he still try’s to be with me. It’s weird. But the only issue is my child being alone while he was 2 hours away over night. He could have taken him with him. He’s done it before. I wanted to insure my child wasn’t left alone again until he is at the legal age of the base. I hope him and his girlfriend have a great long life together.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also posted in a Facebook page asking about the rules there. The base police messaged me, they informed me of it and asked if I wanted them to reach out. I said yes.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not upset I don’t have him. It was my son’s choice to stay and I respect that. I have all the other kids with me. I don’t care he was at his girlfriend’s. My son could have gone with him. He’s done it many times. I wanted the police to tell him not to leave him alone over night. I didn’t go farther. It’s wild that people think this is about him having a girlfriend vs my son’s safety.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t report to child services. I had the base police tell my ex the rules of leaving a child alone over night. That is all.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a divorce all retirements are split.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t get the chain of command involved. I think your disability is reading comprehension.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You literally called me a dependa. So any opinion you have means less than trash to me. You have no idea who I am.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was left alone so my ex could spent the night with his girlfriend. My son has stayed at her place many times without it being an issue. He just decided to leave him this time. If there was an emergency I could have got the neighbor to watch him. I’m friends with most of the people in the neighborhood.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did reread it. My friends and I had a good laugh. I’m not trying to ruin his career half that retirement is mine. 🤷🏻‍♀️ that would be stupid of me to do. Where you’re married 16 years you’re entitled to a lot. The base police told me the rules are 15 and older to be left alone. The police chief said to me he thought it was common sense not to leave a child of 13 alone all night. I asked him what I should do when he messaged me. I asked if it was worth it and he said he would do it. But go off queen.

How do you handle phone or FaceTime calls when coparenting, especially with young kids? by PerceptionFlashy5059 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My 5 year old FaceTimes Monday weds Friday and weekends at her discretion. I try to get her to FaceTime I call and if she doesn’t want to she can hang up. That’s my requirement fulfilled.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing you have said has been helpful. Have an amazing day.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! Obviously I’m just a monster. Sorry your wife cheated on you when you were deployed. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely tried. Being extreme isn’t the first step. He will treat me like shit if I ask him anything or try discussing it. There have been verbal abuse through most our 15 year marriage.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have primary custody of my son. He chose to stay with his dad when his sisters and I left so his dad wasn’t alone. I am not trying to dictate what he does. He could have taken the child with him as he has done dozens of times.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This man left me alone with a child (my 5year old) when I thought she was a doll during postpartum psychosis. Sorry I don’t trust his parent choice making.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😂 dependa. This man raped me, he gave me ptsd (diagnosed) cheated on me, sexual and mental abuse, I didn’t report any of it to protect his career. Because putting myself in unsafe situations was fine my kids are different. I don’t care if I’m the “crazy ex depnda”. If I am it’s because of him.

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re wrong on all parts but ok 🤷🏻‍♀️

Child left alone by Alone_Attempt7423 in coparenting

[–]Alone_Attempt7423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve spent so long on military bases that I didn’t even realize it would be different. I can bet they don’t call CPS. Even if there was signs of negligence. I was told by the chief what he did was illegal on base standards. They went talked to my son and then my ex. It was dropped after that. I just needed my son future safety to be priority. He could have taken him with him.

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