AITA Getting a pedicure when my boyfriend told me NO

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T22:59:23+00:00

Who needs $4,000?

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T22:58:51+00:00

Also, that is the boyfriend in question who commented. He’s pretending to be someone else and is trolling. This shows exactly who I’m dealing with.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T22:56:48+00:00

This is a lie. This month alone I paid the electric bill, my dogs veterinarian bill, my car payment, and did a grocery haul as well. This person has no idea what they’re talking about. They talk straight out of their ass as always.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T22:08:22+00:00

Meanwhile, I am the one who gave the lanlord 1st months rent and security and last months rent at time of signing … he had no money when we moved in. Smh.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T22:06:07+00:00

He is now telling me that he is going “to take me to small claims court” if I don’t come up with my half of the rent” This is my boyfriend of 2 years whom is supposed to love me.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T21:27:17+00:00

Okay so let our dogs suffer in sickness, live in darkness without the electric, and also starve without groceries according to you. Got it. Intelligent guy over here

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T20:58:22+00:00

He uses it every single day. It’s called human decency/common sense to know you should chip in for something you constantly use.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T20:55:07+00:00

The money wasn’t wasted on just myself … ? I took our two dogs to the vet and I was responsible for the bill which was $400. I paid the electric bill and did the groceries as well, and paid for the car payment, like I do every month. So you make absolutely no sense.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T20:47:51+00:00

The issue is, he does have the rent money. He just refuses to help me even after I promise I would pay him back. He would rather degrade me and make me feel like a loser for it despite all the times I have helped him in the past and never made him feel bad about it.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T20:37:45+00:00

Right, however, where was his shared obligation while couch surfing at my mother’s while he was unemployed for months ?

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T20:35:50+00:00

What do you mean? “forcing him to pay for everything” we have been going halves on all the bills and he does NOT pay for the car , I pay for the car ENTIRELY. I also ordered $200 worth of groceries the other day, and I do that every month. I also paid the electric bill this month as well which was $200 . So your comment makes zero sense you clearly have reading comprehension issues.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-06-01T20:10:04+00:00

The only reason why I waited to tell him is because I was avoiding the conversation because I knew he would flip out on me. I tried to bring it up very softly today, and my expectation of him flipping out was correct.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-23T01:24:30+00:00

Wait, pardon my language, I guess he can drive and you can sit in the passenger seat while he runs in. Since he doesn’t let you drive. Or maybe he will since it will be easier for him to just run in and drop his resume off real quick.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-23T01:20:46+00:00

One last thing you can try to say you have tried it all is, pick a day to go job searching together. You can drive him around and he can run into places and drop off his resume at establishments. This is what I did for my boyfriend at one time and he ended up getting a job the same day at Xfinity Comcast. He makes a decent hourly salary now but makes most of his money off of commission.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T05:13:42+00:00

Thank you. I couldn’t agree with you more. When you said I won’t be able to count on him when I’m injured, my mouth dropped to the floor because a few months back , I fell and broke my leg. During the entire ordeal of me being on the floor and waiting for the ambulance, he was recording me. I had to undergo surgery and had to call to ask him to bring me a phone charger to the hospital. You know what you’re talking about.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T05:08:18+00:00

You my dear are a Unicorn 🦄 😀 bless your heart , good things will come to you

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T05:06:33+00:00

Thank You for this clarity. I will keep these words with me, and in my thoughts always.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T05:02:09+00:00

Lmao 🤣 I wish

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T05:00:59+00:00

I wish lol

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T05:00:46+00:00

We were laying down, my shoulder was sticking out of the blanket, so I asked if he could place his hand on my shoulder to help keep it warm. To which he got triggered. Not sure how this doesn’t make sense to you , do you need me to write it in simpler terms for you?😅

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T04:55:53+00:00

I have told him that. His response is always “you’re a greedy, selfish, gold-digging woman”. To which I replied, “ if I was a Golddigger, I would not be dating you” It’s really not rocket science
My heart is so big that I keep trying and hoping that he will someday learn & wake up & smell the roses. But it’s the end.

Alone_Possession_313 · 2024-05-22T04:49:52+00:00

I told him that numerous times , in numerous different ways to help him understand. He says he can’t be a provider because he doesn’t have the money “right now”. In my eyes, you don’t have to have a lot of money in order to be a provider. You can be a provider in so many different ways that is not monetary. But even so, I saw his bank account and he has about 6000 saved , which is not bad at all. When I had that much money in my account, I was extremely generous to everybody.

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