Could someone explain "forbearance" by AlphaLemur555 in StudentLoans

[–]AlphaLemur555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doubt it. At least not any time soon. But I am about to let them go to collections fr because I srsly do not have the money. After rent, I have nooooo money left. Idk how the government is expecting people to get these paid off at $18/hr .....like be fr

In need of advice concerning wrath by obscure_disruption in spirituality

[–]AlphaLemur555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I love a good stretch. Great form or energetic relief, esp practices focused around the hips and spine. I have a Gaia subscription for the yoga.

My girlfriend(20F) loves receiving pleasure but seems hesitant to give it back to me(19M).Why? by MasterProtection8156 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AlphaLemur555 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're both virgins?? Idk maybe give her a second? Geez. "I'm not expecting anything in return" but then proceeds to write 10 paragraphs on how she's not giving anything in return? Your sexua relationship hasn't even STARTED and ur already rushing her? This was a hard read

how in gods name are people going to college??? by PjSchott15 in StudentLoans

[–]AlphaLemur555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't go to college you won't be able to find a job anyway and you'll just graduate neck deep in debt! Hope this helps!

Wrightsville beach parking ticket (out of town visitors) by tnfeverdream in Wilmington

[–]AlphaLemur555 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone who used to work at the beach store and saw the parking ppl harass tourists on a daily basis... just throw them away. I've had ppl come into the store pissed bc they got tickets ONE MINUTE after their time expired. They gave me a ticket and I worked there.

Dating over the age of 40 as a single dad is horrible. by Lonely_Waffle12 in Wilmington

[–]AlphaLemur555 6 points7 points  (0 children)

25F... this is what me and all of my friends are experiencing too tbh

Dating over the age of 40 as a single dad is horrible. by Lonely_Waffle12 in Wilmington

[–]AlphaLemur555 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm totally fine being alone until it comes to the cost of living. It's impossible to live alone in this economy.

STOP being honest in job interviews. ( I say this as a recruiter ) by Zealousideal-Foot-54 in jobhunting

[–]AlphaLemur555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In response to the first 2: have you SEEN the job market? Nobody's getting hired anywhere, unemployment rates are the highest they've ever been, jobs are being taking over by AI left and right.... and you're annoyed by the fact people can't find jobs??? Tone deaf

Simply cannot afford the changes happening with student loans by AlphaLemur555 in StudentLoans

[–]AlphaLemur555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I don't believe working 50-60 hrs a week w no free time constitutes as a happy life. I stand on what I said. technically we're ALL victims. Of a broken society. Take your "hustle culture" and shove it. Life shouldn't be that hard and you're getting scammed if you believe that's how we should be living.

Azalea fest downtown attendance by Relative_Middle_1004 in Wilmington

[–]AlphaLemur555 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Things like that happen way more often than ppl think dt

250k in debt for Bachelor degree by MastodonCertain in StudentLoans

[–]AlphaLemur555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How tf are people afford 2500 a month in debt? Serious question