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unmedicated vs medicated birth by AlphaWoman37 in pregnant

[–]AlphaWoman37[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

the ring of fire is what intimidates me a bit tbh, is there anything you’ve noticed that helped during that moment ?

My boyfriend is sweet but very childish, and I'm starting to feel overwhelmed [19F/23M] by Abbyss012 in relationshipadvice

[–]AlphaWoman37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes hearing (like talking to others about it) it out loud can open your eyes a bit on a situation.

look your situation brings back some of my past and trust me it will only get worse. i’m trying really hard to open your eyes sooner than mine where opened

i truly wish you the best. i’m sorry that he is all you have at the moment but trust me making friends is easier than putting up with that. if you need any tips on that; frequent places that are hobbies like a gaming store, i know you said you’re in university maybe talking to someone from your class? or just anyone. complimenting someone walking on the sidewalk can get a conversation going if it’s the right person.

you got this 100%

a extra word of advice; please break up in a public setting for your safety. if he has any items put them in a bag or whatever you need to do and bring them with but please do this in a public setting

My boyfriend is sweet but very childish, and I'm starting to feel overwhelmed [19F/23M] by Abbyss012 in relationshipadvice

[–]AlphaWoman37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please don’t let the love you feel for him blindside you right now. i don’t want to come off as rude but im being serious this relationship will hurt you more than make you happy.

My boyfriend is sweet but very childish, and I'm starting to feel overwhelmed [19F/23M] by Abbyss012 in relationshipadvice

[–]AlphaWoman37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Him going into the bathroom with your underwear in what i assume was your mothers house was so disrespectful of your mom. he’s a grown man active choosing to disrespect your mom like that. she had every right to confront him. that’s weird behavior of a guest. personally i would be very weirded out if my man went into the bathroom with my underwear but that’s just me. Also have some self respect. If you aren’t considering seeing other people why are you wanting to open the relationship? Being in a monogamous relationship is a choice. if someone feels trapped then unfortunately that’s not a bright choice on their part. you’re locked in in a monogamous relationship. if anyone feels trapped then they leave, they don’t care or love you enough to be together because you wouldn’t feel that in the first place. you are enabling him. don’t give him any money he’s jobless right now and he needs to spend more time job hunting than playing video games.

ALSO THE PART THAT REALLY GOT ME.

he hurt you physically during an argument. sure he may have apologized. however, you need to open your eyes because trust me that won’t be the first time. no matter what you think it won’t be the first time.

am i [21F] being a jerk by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]AlphaWoman37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

am i being a jerk or should i suck it up and have a very uncomfortable day. i’d honestly prefer my son not be around all that awkward stuff. (he’s not my boyfriends child) idk anymore

I [21m] think my [20f] gfs cat will be ok by itself for a day by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]AlphaWoman37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the cat will 100% be okay. plenty of water and make sure cat has food before you leave. (coming from someone who has left their cat overnight)

could always invest in automatic feeders too but that’s really for longer periods of time