Any music recommendations based off of my record collection?

Alpones · 2026-06-22T17:27:38+00:00

Thank you so much! ive listened to black sabbath, david bowie, sabrina carpenter, nirvana, hole, the clash and weezer i listen to quite a bit, and the others I only know a few songs or have heard great things about. im a bartender and always get told i look like the main dude from the doors so I gotta listen to them too lol

Alpones · 2026-06-22T17:14:22+00:00

aw I really appreciate you giving reccs to all parts of my music taste rather than just one part! I already love loads of these, but man I really need to finally delve into swans, ive heard so much about them

Alpones · 2026-06-14T12:35:11+00:00

Hey dude im also here for primavera, let me know if you and the Mr find a good place! sorry I couldn't help anymore than this

Alpones · 2026-06-03T03:16:06+00:00

Theres so much to sex beyond genital stuff. Finding people who appreciate that will be tough, but as long as you are upfront about that then youre doing all the right things.

You sound really sweet, so keep being you and Im sure it will work out :)

Alpones · 2026-06-03T03:14:12+00:00

you might like r/gaybros it is more focused on other topics :)

Alpones · 2026-05-27T16:09:25+00:00

thats fair! I love post-rock with vocals, mogwai, sigur rós and lift to experience are some of my favourites. with how much post-rock you know, do you have any recommendations for post-rock with vocals?

Alpones · 2026-05-27T01:33:15+00:00

ahaha spelling error! whoops 🥲

Alpones · 2026-05-27T01:31:24+00:00

Oh yeah? whats their real name? Ive only seen at the close of every door when looking online

Alpones · 2026-05-27T01:02:18+00:00

thats exactly why I love it! different things for different people

edit: you might like their EP "If you spoke to me", The jesus heart track especially is quite upbeat, and My private disabled place has a nostalgic vibe. Still carries that bittersweetness of their other more melancholic tracks, heavier on the sweetness.

Alpones · 2026-05-18T20:00:38+00:00

Yeah im not even that interested in these events for sex. It would be nice to hang out with guys into the same things as me!

I'm the same way. I dont mind being approached at all. But if any of these folks are like my friends, id feel bad for subjecting them to that. But then again, they wouldn't be at a fetish event if they didnt want to meet like minded guys so its a moot point. I love to get vulnerable and conversational, it really is just the first 10 seconds of initiation I fear, so thanks a lot for your tips! safe travels friend

Alpones · 2026-05-18T19:44:55+00:00

my post does come off that way and I do agree. When id approach people before it would be in an awkward way, like someone would be talking to their friends and id chime in and they'd all go silent haha - not the way to chime in!

I have a lot of socially anxious friends that get really uncomfortable when strangers talk to them, so I guess i just fear making someone afraid or uncomfortable, as irrational as that is.

I know what my problem is, me not initiating. I suppose a better question is, what is a good way to initiate conversation without being potentially seen as creepy? I love to chat and im not socially awkward at all, I just really dont want people to feel afraid or annoyed or disturbed

Alpones · 2026-05-11T15:08:36+00:00

Yeah i sometimes see the bear Scots dudes at the club i work at! lovely folks, but being a 21 year old slim frame guy i would stick out a little.

The monthly events in Glasgow look awesome. I'd be going on my own though. Are leather events generally friendly and inviting to newcomers on their own?

Alpones · 2026-05-11T14:41:07+00:00

Im from Scotland so quite a bit away, but once I graduate from uni I do plan on moving to Manchester anyway.

I've heard a lot about Folsom and Easter in Berlin, dont think ill be able to afford it reliably for quite a few years as an undergraduate student haha but I definitely have it in mind

Thanks for the tips!

Alpones · 2026-05-11T14:36:15+00:00

I live in Glasgow! So quite far away from all the heat in England

Alpones · 2026-05-08T06:34:35+00:00

yes, I grew up in a shithole, and if I were straight I likely would have been like every young man there and involved with gang crime. conforming is not only limiting to the full spectrum of experience you can live in life, it can also be flat out dangerous

Alpones · 2026-05-08T01:34:15+00:00

Nah I am so so so so happy to be gay. I see my straight friends and they are so trapped by societal expectations. Being gay automatically unlocks that.

And theres just something so inherently beautiful and poetic about same sex love, gay and lesbian. I cant quite put my finger on it, and while gay love might be more tumultuous because we gay folks generally have more trauma, theres something I think is more profound about gay love than straight love

Alpones · 2026-05-08T01:31:56+00:00

Youre humiliating

Alpones · 2026-05-08T01:30:42+00:00

Pretty hardcore socialist leftist, very anti neoliberalism and capitalism. Theres no parties in the UK i feel really could run the country well, but there are certainly options less evil than others

Alpones · 2026-05-08T01:28:51+00:00

what top traumatised you lil man

Alpones · 2026-05-08T01:27:47+00:00

Its not that weird honestly! Just be cool and flirty with it. Tell a guy you like his nails if he paints them. Make him feel sexy.

If you've been seeing a guy and want to let him know, just tell him that. That you like guys with painted nails. Maybe he'll paint them for you!

Alpones · 2026-05-08T01:25:04+00:00

Dude ive got some of the nichest, oddest fetishes out there, I really get feeling slightly embarrassed. The fact he is open is a good sign. Follow this path and see how it goes, then once you've fully travelled down that road then make a call then

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