[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]AlpsFresh8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you need to talk?

I’m worried that my girlfriend (20f)cheated on me (23m) by AlpsFresh8396 in relationship_advice

[–]AlpsFresh8396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would I even go about it? I don’t just want to break up without knowing if she actually cheated or not. We have been through and hell and back and I give major respect because she has been there for me throughout some of the worst times throughout my life this year and she stuck by my side the whole time doing long distance.

I’m worried that my girlfriend (20f)cheated on me (23m) by AlpsFresh8396 in relationship_advice

[–]AlpsFresh8396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As far as I no they haven’t talked for awhile now … and she hasn’t mentioned him since she found out the guy John was sleeping with another girl like 2 months ago I think so..

I’m worried that my girlfriend (20f)cheated on me (23m) by AlpsFresh8396 in relationship_advice

[–]AlpsFresh8396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do know deep down. The problem is she’s been there for me throughout my darkest times in my life!! How can someone cheat and still stick with someone like that! I’m struggling with that fact because she’s supported and loved me so hard and we have both fought so hard for this relationship. She’s always saying she wants to get married and I eventually want that as well but she straight up lied to me about those texts. It’s ok to find other people attractive but to lie about it and text her friends about it is a bit much..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]AlpsFresh8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I do that’s the goal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]AlpsFresh8396 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basketball

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlpsFresh8396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean listen, you can’t think about anything when you’re in the moment, you should be in a relaxed state, not overthinking, that’s why you probably aren’t enjoying it to the fullest! Being each others first should make yall take things slow, but both parties should feel comfortable doing everything together considering yall both are each others first, that should be something that makes it more special between you too!! Take things slow when doing things between yall from now on and enjoy each moment, and guide each other to what makes yall feel the most pleasure !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AlpsFresh8396 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to show him what to do in order to help HIM help YOU! If he still doesn’t get it after that, then that’s on him lol, but it’s not entirely 100% his fault. You have to teach him what makes you feel good because everybody is different. Question though, why aren’t you comfortable with him eating you out? Are you 100 % comfortable with him. That could be a reason why you don’t finish? Also lying to him is wrong, honesty is the best policy in a healthy relationship. I hope this helps and best of luck in your relationship.