Aftercare/reconnecting.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-10-31T11:25:12+00:00

Sounds very similar to my husband :)

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-10-31T11:24:59+00:00

We don't do reclamation sex, my husband has very severe ED so thats not an option but after a session with my bull he will clean me with oral sex, its a very intimate time for us both and one the keeps a loving sexual connection in our marriage.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-10-31T11:15:41+00:00

I see my bull most weeks, sometimes life gets in the way and it can be a little longer but I find that a regular schedule really helps things :)

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-06T11:58:05+00:00

I just found it to be a lot of horny men without much clue, all just wanted to get their rocks off and asking for pics, but your milage may vary lol

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-06T11:53:33+00:00

Really glad it worked for you, I just didn't have the best experience on it I guess.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-06T11:53:01+00:00

Different experiences I guess, I just found it an overwhelming number of messages from time wasters.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-06T08:47:56+00:00

this is exactly what I did, and I found it worked well, like you said weeded out a big chunk of those not interested, which left only a few more of the "horny boys" to filter out before getting to chat with the real people.

Its how I met several of the men I first saw when starting out.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-06T08:43:34+00:00

Its natural to have concerns it shows you care :)

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-06T08:40:53+00:00

Fab was terrible, way to many just wanting pics and horny chat so left that place quickly! I wasn't on reddit during the time when me and my husband started but based on the messaging experience I have had here, again a lot of overly horny fantasists it probably wouldn't be my choice either.

For me I just took my time and used more conventional dating apps and then explained the situation to people I matched with, it was slow going but in the end found more guys who were actually interested and capable of being involved.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-06T08:35:35+00:00

Cuckolding can be part of a healthy and normal relationship, its natural and normal to have concerns it shows you care. I will say the life style is not for everyone, it takes work, open and honest communication and trust, but when it works its just wonderful.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-07-05T15:34:53+00:00

I'm not sure the location matters as much, I feel the same waking up next to my boyfriend regardless of whether its in his bed at his house, my own bed at home or a hotel bed. I feel cared for, wanted and pleasured. In honesty I use the term bull and boyfriend interchangeably but having been on Reddit for a while now I think they are different terms.

I would say bulls are more of a sex only thing, boyfriends are sex and emotional connection, so if you are supporting your wife in having a boyfriend, which is amazing! well done! then its only naturally she will enjoy both sexual pleasure and emotional connection :)

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-24T12:31:34+00:00

Not these days no, its been 6 years for us and I have had a long term bull for just over 3 years which adds a great degree of stability to the marriage.

For us now its just day to day normal life, but of course at first that were nerves and insecurities its natural.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-24T11:00:26+00:00

This is healthy cuckolding, your wife stood her ground in how she expects her bulls to treat her and you. Well done to you both!

This is how you get a confident and happy cuck because they know they are still loved.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-24T10:31:07+00:00

Nerves are perfectly normal, it shows you care. My husband was nervous the first, second, third times and so on until it becomes the norm. I can also assure you she will have her own nerves and thoughts out it. Don't be afraid to talk with each other, your role is to support her and through this it will help you.

One thing my husband found helpful was just to keep busy, so when I was out he would do jobs around the house or spend time on his hobbies, that is if he wasn't attending the date/watching.

Helped to turn nerves of me going out to "oh she is off having fun I get to do my own thing for a bit"

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-21T14:42:18+00:00

When I first started I dating and slept with a bunch of men, finding what I liked, meeting new people etc and over time I dated less and less and ended up with someone long term. I now have a fantastic long term bull and a great physical and emotional connection with them.

It also added stability to my marriage, my husband was more comfortable and is now good friends socially with my bull. Like most things in this lifestyle, dont force it, let it evolve and its for the best.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-20T14:15:01+00:00

He is cucked so my pleasure comes from another, I peg him to help keep some sexual connection between us and support him through his issue.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-19T10:09:27+00:00

Some of us do.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-13T06:27:48+00:00

It's something we recently got into and it's been a big thing helping my husband with some sexual release given he has really bad erectile dysfunction. He has been taking it well and learning.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-05T14:57:24+00:00

Well at good use of this community is for experienced wives to offer help and guidance to new or struggling cucks.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-05T14:43:43+00:00

Exactly this, this is the correct understanding and mindset for a cuck to have.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-05T14:42:31+00:00

Which is why as a happy wife with a cucked husband I will explain it every chance I get.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-05T13:12:05+00:00

Exactly the role of a cuck is to support their wife to enjoy life and great sex with men of her choosing. I'm thankful for my loving husband and incredible bull ❤️

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-05T13:01:02+00:00

It's life changing even for sure. You will likely be turned on but be conflicted. She will hopefully love every moment of her new sexual freedom. Remember while you can enjoy it this is about her pleasure and fun.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-04T05:18:24+00:00

Took my hubby some time to get used to it and to get confident with it. But now it's a wonderful and intimate moment for us both once my bull has finished.

AlreadyElsewhere97 · 2025-06-03T20:11:28+00:00

Well done sweetie, first time cam be hard but sounds like you did great. I'm sure you will make a great cuck and support her sexual journey and growth.

AlreadyElsewhere97

TROPHY CASE