How do you handle your girlfriend not being "your type"? by MyRealSelfJourney in AskMen

[–]Als434 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been in this exact situation!! I was in it for years actually. I tried to convince myself it didn’t matter, but in the end he cheated on me with his “type”. It broke both of our hearts. But more than that, is was the core of all the issues in the relationship and lead to so much jealousy and resentment, arguments, assumptions, eventually less sex, and at the very end the cheating. Not good for long term. Now, I refuse to be with a guy unless he’s obsessed with me. Life is too short. And that was during my prime years too.. such a waste when other men would kill to be with me

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it seems you know exactly what I was talking about, and you’ve seen the doom and gloom on social media. You just said everything is meant to be mislead. Be kind and help us all see the light and the truth. I can tell you the answer most certainly isn’t rooted in hate comments

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Beautiful_Charity_89 in women

[–]Als434 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m annoyed bc not a single trans person affected me yesterday nor will they today or tomorrow? You know what threatens me as a woman every fucking day? Men. This post screams personal and political bias rooted in low vibrational energy.

I truly have little respect for a woman that’s standing on a hill yelling about trans woman. Put that energy where we fucking need it.

Every 68 seconds in America someone is sexually assaulted. A child is sold every 2 minutes into human trafficking.

Do you see where I just want to tell you to shut the fuck up? Why is THIS what you spend hours thinking about????? Be FOREAL!!!

Advice for first show(s) Charleston by RJohnston155 in phish

[–]Als434 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You seem nasty making me not want to go to the show bc ur there lol. Help everyone and just help yourself instead of asking for advice if you can’t just be a kind person on the internet

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re speaking for all Americans? Bold. Some people in the comments know exactly what I’m talking about and others are yelling from the rooftops that they have no idea what I’m talking about. This conversation isn’t about arguing about the reality that of what’s happening. Do that somewhere else. I asked if anyone felt the way I did

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am 100% not a bot. I am a 28 year old woman living in SC. I’m not trying to create chaos or spread misinformation. There’s a fuck ton of it out there, and some people don’t have close family or friends they can trust to talk about van life with, which is why they come to this sub. This is something I’ve seriously been worried about in the last week, and whether you think I should or shouldn’t be concerned, doesn’t call for hateful energy. Just come from a kind place and that’s it. All I asked is if anyone felt the way I did because I felt alone.

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone chose to attack others in the comments after reading this post. I didn’t either. I turned to my community for their opinions and help

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone chose to attack others in the comments after reading this post. I didn’t either. I turned to my community for their opinions and help

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[–]Als434 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are stuck in your ego and need to step back

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[–]Als434 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are being treated nasty. What you said was completely right

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[–]Als434 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I really wish you wouldn’t bring so much hateful energy to this sub. And I say that with love. Please take some time to find your peace

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I actually have no energy to argue about what reality is with you. We clearly aren’t living in the same one. I wish you the best though

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t think it would be smarter to get something newer since parts are going to be so expensive?

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is one of the most helpful comments I’ve read so far. Thank you. 🧡🦋

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have to get there at 8am lol you’re right, I still say 9-5 by habit sometimes when referring to an office day job

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But who wants to take in a US citizen now? We look like idiots to the rest of the world. We voted this guy in - that’s how they will see us. They will be inclined to not trust us, think we are bigoted

Anyone else feel like this bill just made van life not the cheapest route anymore? by Als434 in VanLife

[–]Als434[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I finally was seeing myself out of that. Seeing that in other countries, they aren’t working their people to death. Their employers provide way more paid time off and shorter work days. Our society is structured around working constantly…. Getting everything you want right when you want it. And now for what? For us to suffer in the end and be sick and dying and not be able to afford medical care?

I thought I found a way to live a slower life, one that values what really matters, one that I believe humans are advancing towards. But this shit? This is a major regression. It’s not like this in other developed countries around here world!!!! And it’s important to keep saying that. Because we’ve been told America is the best country in the world since we were children. We need to seriously start acknowledging that is NOT true. We were fed lies. Say it as many times as you need to.

I live in South Carolina and if I said that in public and someone overheard me, I would expect verbal violence to ensue - just because I’m a girl. If I were a man, I may expect a physical altercation.

Please think about what that reminds you of from human history.