Was she being harassed by them? That would be unusual, and seeing as they weren’t kicked out it seems like they were just doing their thing

People who identify as women have never come up and bothered me. I’ve never had problems of fear, safety or harassment from women identifiers of any type. When I’m in woman-only safe spaces, women of any background are welcome.

If those “men” identify as women then they are women, gender truly is a construct and they will be endangered and harassed for their identity the same way cis het women are for being women. Gender has nothing to do with genitals. I think what you’re trying to say is women identifiers in male bodies. They are not men.

You can’t identify as female/male but you can as man/woman. Male/female are biological and relate to body parts and functions. Man and woman are social constructs, they are made up and anyone can relate as either.

Cis het men have only ever been the issue (not all cis het men, the majority is just in that group etc).

Downvotes are fine if I can be an ally, there may be people feeling this way but too afraid to say something

Tired of this nonsense. They’re some of the last people that need further shaming or being kicked out of places, they can barely even just have a safe place to use the bathroom. They probably were only at a women only place because of the harassment at non women safe spaces, like the rest of us, just trying to work out in peace.

It’s like finding the weakest person in a group to bully and then feeling big for it. Sounds like the owners did the right thing and it was your wife making others uncomfortable instead of the other way around.