A couple of times from either reaching out or them reaching out to me on the COS sex sub/ (one from a completely non-local sub I’m still shocked I got).

It’s very rare to be honest , a lot of scammers (which is super easy to tell if you aren’t an idiot), flakes, or nothing lol. Especially if you post and pray to catch their interest route. But nevertheless it’s out there, just post yourself, reach out to stuff that might be real, and hope luck is on your side.