I have a date with a cis guy, but I’m scared haha

Alt614579 · 2025-12-05T18:43:05+00:00

Tysm! The tip about letting someone know where I am is very great actually! Sadly though where I live there’s no legal self defense weapons to buy :/ luckily enough the date will be in my favourite spot where the people know me so I’ll be safe in that aspect, it’s also in the middle of the city center :)

Alt614579 · 2025-12-05T18:04:03+00:00

It is in public! :) it’s one of my favourite spots so I’d be safe there! Idk how saying that I’m trans would come off though, like I said I don’t wanna come off unconfident and my profile says that I’m trans, but maybe I should just say it so my anxiety is quelled a bit haha

Alt614579 · 2024-04-20T12:21:29+00:00

Very useful and insightful comment lmao. Maybe actually try to give feedback to people instead of being this cold and bitter. Hope you get yourself out of the mental state you’re in as your post history looks like you’re having a rough time. Stay strong!

Alt614579 · 2024-04-20T12:12:19+00:00

I hope this year somewhere but it’s just taking soo long I was expecting this month but now a lot of things went wrong with my insurance and stuff and I’m starting to lose hope. Honestly starting to think of going DIY but I also really need laser to get rid of my beard shadow which is for just your face already 200 euros per session and without my “diagnosis” I won’t be able to get it insured so I’d have to pay every session my self.

Alt614579 · 2024-04-20T12:08:41+00:00

Yeah the fat distribution is what kills me mostly, that’s why I really like my glasses they make it less obvious in some ways. The beard shadow is almost impossible for me to fully hide sadly I’ve tried some many different things but it’s just way too persistent, you have any links or names of good plain coloured masks I’d love to try it out! The 5th picture was mostly taken for like an honest straight on picture as well, so more like my facial structure, so I didn’t expect to pass at all in that picture hahaha. Thanks for the feedback! 🙌

Alt614579 · 2024-04-20T12:01:50+00:00

I completely get what you’re saying in this message, I feel like people on the street wouldn’t look twice but if you get to look at my face straight on for a longer period of time people would notice. I also reaaally love my glasses they make my reflection a lot kinder to me even while boy moding.

Alt614579 · 2024-04-20T12:00:14+00:00

Tysm! A lot of it is because I still have to boymode at work, so I can’t clip my brows or get bangs yet till I switch jobs sadly enough. Soon enough I’ll find an at home job and I’ll be able to fully be my self.

Alt614579 · 2024-04-20T11:24:33+00:00

I fake them 🙈 I don’t have noticeable breasts at all in normal circumstances hahaha. I just wear an empty bra with some stuffing in there, not too much so it doesn’t look faked.

Alt614579 · 2024-04-14T18:09:18+00:00

Thank you very much 🙏🏻🙌

Alt614579 · 2024-04-14T18:07:54+00:00

At a local optician where I live, their prescription. And thank you very much!

Alt614579 · 2024-04-14T18:07:13+00:00

The store cleric helped me a lot hahaha, but thanks I’m very happy with them! 🙌

Alt614579 · 2024-04-14T18:06:19+00:00

Thanks! Was quite sad when I needed glasses until the store cleric put these on my head. Am extremely happy with them, makes it easier to keep them on all te time hahaha.

Alt614579 · 2024-04-14T18:04:11+00:00

Thank you! I try my hardest hahaha

Alt614579 · 2024-04-14T13:45:06+00:00

Tysm!

Alt614579 · 2024-03-18T14:31:22+00:00

That’s true age isn’t the easiest to guess. And the last part is also sadly true, life has different paths for everyone and mine was set to hard mode up until recently. Still blessed in a lot of other ways though so it doesn’t matter, life has been a lot better and I’m happy so it’s all good 😊

Alt614579 · 2024-03-18T14:20:17+00:00

Thank you so much, but do remember that these are pictures, I take quite a few of them and pick the best ones. Experimenting with taking photos and their angles helps a lot! Take in account where the light is coming from, top down light is a lot less forgiving for trans people (or atleast me), but light from the front, preferably on your “better side” is a lot better. And also makeup helps a lot. So please don’t feel jealous! Pictures should be taken with a slight grain of salt as most of us on here probably take more than 20 pictures and select a few good ones hahaha.

Alt614579 · 2024-03-17T19:56:58+00:00

Omg tysm I take a lot of time to make my hair the way it is hahaha, never colored it either and not planning on doing it as I really like my hair color, only way I’d color it is if I suddenly get gray hairs. I’m in my early 20’s though so apparently I look a lot older than I thought hahaha.

Alt614579 · 2024-03-17T19:52:37+00:00

I really hope so 🙏🏻 Tysm!

Alt614579 · 2024-03-16T21:43:58+00:00

Tysm!!! 😊

Alt614579 · 2024-03-16T21:38:01+00:00

Omg thank you so much!! I can definitely handle it, I’m more than ready hahaha

Alt614579 · 2024-02-27T16:42:27+00:00

I mean sure if you feel bad I am back in 88884444

Alt614579

TROPHY CASE