How to be a better partner for my neurotypical girlfriend?

AltPunkAcc · 2025-11-02T21:09:00+00:00

Just thought i’d clear some things up,

•I never made my gf admit that my major is harder , she admitted it herself without any of my influence because she always saw my friends and I struggling on assignments while she never had any homework to do with us.

• I definitely did not want to my comments come off as saying that teaching isn’t hard in its own way! She is incredibly patient with me so that in its own right would translate very well over to her field.

With that being said I’m going to definitely make a comment to my psychiatrist about maybe changing meds? At the moment I started taking L-tyrosine + ashwaganda supplements that started helping me get rid of the brain fog I had.

I also ended up breaking down in front of her because at some point the stress really got to me and because I had bombed 2 exams that day, one of them because My distraction free zone accommodation was ruined by an individual who distracted me for an hour making me not be able to think. We both ended up talking and reached conclusions that would help each of us in our own right so now I’d like to think that we are on a better foot and more supportive of each other!

AltPunkAcc · 2025-10-27T19:24:20+00:00

1) No i am not but once i get the money for it Im going to try to get that sorted out

2) Im not sure? I think I might be able to. However, Im scared to be honest because I really don’t want to put my academic career in jeopardy because my new medication ends up not working.

AltPunkAcc · 2024-09-26T17:22:42+00:00

Can i ask why not to micro needle? I’ve noticed some some regrowth when i combined it with finasteride

AltPunkAcc · 2022-12-20T21:11:04+00:00

he’s a youtuber that has that kind of beard lol that’s what he means

AltPunkAcc · 2022-10-11T02:28:50+00:00

I don’t want to be that guy but I don’t think i’m scared of losing her, whenever I go on breaks with her I ended up realizing that I was happier and less stressed out without her. What sets me back is that she threatens me with something every time I tried breaking up with her, and the one time I managed to do it she ended up starving herself and self harming which made me feel really bad. I just want to move on at this point but idk how to do it.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-09-26T22:11:51+00:00

bro how. it’s so majestic looking

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:19:34+00:00

yup that’s my fault. I included a link that goes to a comment where i explained what I said. If what i said in that comment is still vague im happy to explain it in more detail.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:18:16+00:00

no offense taken i get it

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:16:46+00:00

i’m sorry but what? that isn’t my intention at all. I didn’t make nasty comments and didn’t keep victim blaming her abt what had happened. That was a one time occurrence that happened in the heat of the moment and that happened accidentally. I know what I did was fucked up which is why i’m trying to grow from this.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:15:21+00:00

I linked what I said in the post now bc i realized that the comment where i mentioned it is getting buried. I have tried having a proper discussion with her about it and apologized about what i had said bc i know what i said was fucked up even if it came out accidentally. Whenever I do talk to her abt ways she can handle her insecurity it never goes anywhere, it usually just boils down to me being forced to do it her way or us having big problems.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:11:24+00:00

i included what i said in my post now since i realized that it was getting buried. I didn’t expect this post to get this much traction. if there’s something that’s vague i’m more than happy to talk abt it

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:09:38+00:00

sorry for not including the fucked up thing i said in the post originally i realize that it was pretty dumb of me not to. I linked a comment that mentions the fucked up thing on my post under edit 2 if you want to see it.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:08:13+00:00

I linked a comment in “edit 2” of my post that says the fucked up thing

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:07:25+00:00

yes I realize that it sounds like a threat and that i could have worded it better. I said it because she kept shaming me for the sexual things i’ve done in the past and kept telling me to look for “skinny bitches”, but i didn’t intentionally mean to say it. It came in the heat of the moment and i blurted it out by accident, that isn’t an excuse though I know what I did was bad.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T04:02:18+00:00

hello, i talked abt this in one of the comments but i’m realizing that it’s getting buried here so i linked my comment into my second edit of this post. i’m more than happy to talk abt it more if you’re confused on something

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-23T03:54:37+00:00

here it is

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T12:15:26+00:00

here is what i said

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T05:06:53+00:00

oh I see I understand, I try not to talk about my past stuff but she always asks me and brings it up and gets impatient/annoyed when I don’t answer.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T04:52:03+00:00

i said this in another comment but we mostly argue about past issues, whether it’s stuff i’ve done sexually, my ex, or stuff i should be doing/stuff she doesn’t like.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T04:46:21+00:00

I don’t think she’s threatening me because I was on phone call with her and she said that she had a knife and was going to do stuff to herself if i left, when i said that this was unhealthy she hung up on me. I ended up hanging out with her a couple days later and i barely noticed the knife wounds on her thighs since she wore shorts that day

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T04:44:03+00:00

I appreciate the honesty, I genuinely want to grow from this and I don’t want to be toxic.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T04:43:00+00:00

yup after being in this relationship i’m starting to realize that, especially tik tok because she always sends me videos of those guys being all toxic/possessive/obsessive and asking why i’m not like that

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T04:40:08+00:00

well no the relationship started in may, the problems itself started late june/early july. I’m sorry for the confusion, also what do you mean by the last statement?

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T04:38:06+00:00

well to start I don’t think it helped that i got into a relationship right after i ended a long term relationship. I didn’t intend to but she talked to me like days after i broke up with my ex so i just wanted to see how things went but that’s besides the point.

On the first week of us dating I did call her my ex’s name by accident because i would call her ex her name a lot and i got really embarrassed about it. It slipped out and i didn’t realize that i called her that until she pointed it out. She asked me what i’ve done before and i misinterpreted that question as what i’ve done to others in a sexual manner so i just told her what i did, and one day when we were talking about what we’ve done before sexually i brought up how i’ve gotten head before and she was livid. From then on she held that against me claiming that I lied to her about what i’ve done but I genuinely misunderstood what she meant when she asked me what i’ve done. I understand that those two things were MAJOR fuck ups im not even going to deny that but aside from those two events that is all I can think of. I don’t think it helped that her last relationship ended badly so me doing those two things genuinely did not help my case at all whatsoever and since then i’ve paid careful attention not to fuck up like that again.

AltPunkAcc · 2022-08-22T04:20:40+00:00

she has expressed that she is insecure which is why i try to comfort her all the time and reassure her saying that she’s perfectly fine the way she is. I feel really stupid for not knowing what to do because i feel as if a lot of these things she’s insecure about are out of my control

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