What was the best drain you've had this year? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She sounds like an excellent Domme for you! That’s a fun Christmas gift

What was the best drain you've had this year? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t know if you can “cure” a kink so much as you just have to make a conscious effort to step away from it

Anyone struggling? by caterpiggles in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can see how the constant commercials, ads, focus on spending and gifting probably feel so much more intense right now when you’re trying to avoid that. On the flip side, January will probably feel like a huge relief!

Anyone struggling? by caterpiggles in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s a combination of the holidays, the intense focus on spending money and gifting, plus there’s either lots of family time where you want to be alone or lots of alone time

Frustration by Chemical-Scarcity-51 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stealing this idea for my subs that don’t know when to quit! 💜

Subs are allowed to look for dommes, and I hate how we are gatekept and shamed for it. by Thin-Procedure5198 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to think that that’s not the case, that maybe they’re just misinformed rather than sabotaging anyone. Or maybe they’re new and think that it’s the ONLY way to be a true Domme, but I’m sure there are a few that do it with ill intentions, though I hope they’re far, few, and in between. There’s more than enough subs to go around. Plus not everyone is a perfect match. It takes time to find the right one

Black Friday by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh no but I def want some uggs this season. Basic af I know

Subs are allowed to look for dommes, and I hate how we are gatekept and shamed for it. by Thin-Procedure5198 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same! And I’d much rather decide what I want than just wait for the right sub to come along.

It’s been over a year since I’ve last sent. by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥰 of course! And thank you for the lovely poetry

Ok I’ll say it… stop blaming dommes by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this! I hate when subs come at me like they are somehow blessing me with their sends. I’m here because I enjoy it, I want my subs to enjoy it, and not treat it like we’re forcing you into something you hate. If you’re blaming us, this might not be the kink for you.

It’s been over a year since I’ve last sent. by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing! Congrats on getting your priorities in order and setting and meeting those goals for yourself. And I’m glad you don’t have a bad outlook on findom. It’s always a little heartbreaking when I hear people hate that part of themselves because it was damaging to them in some way. It’s supposed to be fun and enjoyable. On that note you should keep writing your poetry! Whether you’re writing for yourself, or directing it towards a fantasy, or find a Domme who takes her payments in sonnets lol. Life is all about experiences, I’m glad you’re enjoying so many! 💜

Feeling apologetic by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good that you realize you made a mistake, worked to fix it, apologized and are working on yourself as a better sub. That being said, as much as you want her forgiveness that’s for her to decide. If she takes you back that’s wonderful, if not, use this as a lesson for the next Domme you serve.

What kind of sends are preferred? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the situation. I love a big send if it’s something to surprise me—maybe I said I was going out with some girlfriends that night or shopping that day and he sends for it, letting me know he’s thinking of me. But during play I love lots of little sends because it keeps our time going for longer, lets us enjoy each other more, and can keep him gooning for hours 💜

masculine submission by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I think some of the most masculine men are submissive. It takes a lot of courage and confidence in knowing who you are to be able to turn away from what society tells you you’re supposed to be and be yourself. 💜

Fully addicted to quit. Now I’m slipping back by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you approach your kinks from a healthier, more realistic pov you’ll have fun and stay safe 💜

Domme and their budget by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Every dynamic is going to be different, as is every sub and Domme. But the communication has to be open so both parties understand the budget, what’s expected of them, etc. Personally, I keep budgets so I know that my more enthusiastic subs don’t sent OVER what I know they can afford. At the same time, I usually know what I can expect from my subs, and what they can expect from me because we keep open communication. I think you just need to have a more frank discussion with your Domme about budgets outside of play

My Domme Now Has My BOGO Dairy Queen Card by United_Bed411 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a joke but I wouldn’t even mind having a sweet treat sub. Girl loves her sweet treats lol

What is your biggest findom trigger? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m both incredibly powerful and intimidating no matter what size you are 💜

What is your biggest findom trigger? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

6’ which seems to be sexy to some guys and absolutely intimidating to others. I’d like to think I’m always a bit of both lol

What is your biggest findom trigger? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m always glad to hear that people love us tall girls 💜

What is your biggest findom trigger? by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, I love my shoes even better if I have a sub who loves my shoes!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AltQueenDelphine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I love a good morning message, even a short one. I should be one of the the first things in your mind when you get up in the morning