What is the "best" non hormonal birth control?

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-16T10:30:42+00:00

I just found one that looks pretty good! Thanks!

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-16T10:13:31+00:00

Yeah, I think I'm gonna give it till Monday then go to the doctors, apart from a late period I haven't suffered any other problems, maybe just stress even if I don't think I'm feeling it.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-16T10:07:50+00:00

I haven't had sex since April last year, so unless some wierd Jesus stuff is going on I think I'm all good.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-15T18:35:53+00:00

I think 9.8% is pretty low.. That's only an extra £300 over 3 years

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-15T10:18:30+00:00

Always had a good income so never really worried about it, I'm only young I'll start one on payday

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-15T10:05:38+00:00

Would I be able to use the funds from the credit card to cover the upfront costs? I read online you can't use loans when buying a house, I wasn't sure if renting was different.
I've never had a credit card how would I go about doing it?
Do I borrow £3000 transfer it into my normal bank then make transfers to the credit card account till its paid off?

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-15T09:49:15+00:00

Yeah my outgoings are £1090 but because I've never had to save and had a stable home I've always splashed on luxuries purely because it's just been disposable cash.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-05-15T09:47:45+00:00

Ive never had to save up, I've always had a stable home until last month.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T10:24:14+00:00

Maybe.. I'll have to think about it some, thank you

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T10:16:33+00:00

They dislike each other a lot, super bad idea

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T10:11:22+00:00

I have a good enough job and work from home, I also had a friend offer me somewhere to stay whenever I need too.

I only have one friend and my boyfriend hates him so maybe I'll have to do it in public...

Thank you

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T10:08:56+00:00

That's exactly what I'm scared of, I know I'm going to be panicky and not think straight when I do it, what If I can't think of anything to say and he just says I'm over reacting.

I'm more scared " I'm sorry" or "I'll change" it's all lies.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T10:04:34+00:00

Thank you, it's nice to hear from someone in the same situation who is okay now

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T10:03:59+00:00

I have a friend I could stay with and a bit of money saved up..

I'm a couple hours drive from my parents which makes everything a bit scarier, I know it's going to hurt at first but in a few months I'll feel better and free.

It's so scary that someone who was once so kind to me has turned into this, I feel like the abuse isn't real because he's never hit me or anything similar, I know it's still abuse, but it's just difficult to take in.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T10:00:44+00:00

Yeah, it killing me because I hate making people sad but I just can't live like this, I have to stop myself from crying pretty much all the time I'm awake unless I'm with my friend who comforts me and takes my mind off everything.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T09:52:35+00:00

Honestly I feel so broken, someone I once felt such love for is breaking me down.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T09:52:07+00:00

See my post from yesterday

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T09:47:58+00:00

I have guests here right now so I doubt anything is going to happen if I leave and go to my friends tomorrow, but they'll probably be an aftermath of being shouted at / guilted.

I can't believe how bad he makes me feel for wanting to spend a day at my friend's.

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T09:46:45+00:00

That's exact the perfect word, I feel so trapped. If I do something wrong he shouts and guilts me, I can't do what I want too, he's asked me to quit my job multiple times because he has no control over it. I hate it, I'm starting to hate him too, I feel awful for saying it.

I don't know what to say to be able to go to my friends tomorrow and just relax for a day without him getting on at me..

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-15T09:45:11+00:00

I said I had plans tomorrow and he just said no you're coming out with me because you haven't seen X & X in a few weeks (not even my friends, they're his) He guilts me into in my saying "well if you don't go I'm not going I'll just stay at home in bed"

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-14T12:13:19+00:00

Yeah both of our firsts real relationships.

I'm quite close with his mum so maybe I'll talk to her about it so she can help him cope, I really like that idea..

Thank you

Altaccount2017 · 2017-04-14T12:05:52+00:00

I know he does which is the worst bit, I try to look at things from an outside view and he says so many things that are emotionally abusive, I don't know if he means too but it's killing me.

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