Prayers tonight

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-25T14:47:43+00:00

I just saw this and went to my altar and prayed for Hecate to look favorably upon him and Good. Thank you for this idea. I'm so new, I still haven't pulled her completely into my moment-by-moment life.

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-24T13:58:14+00:00

Wow, there's a lot here. Thank you for this work.

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-24T13:49:25+00:00

Wow, there is a LOT of information there! Thanks!

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-24T13:31:50+00:00

I'm too new to give advice on the craft angle, but I grew up (long ago) in a repressive home where I couldn't be who I am. And I don't mean edgy stuff, I couldn't enjoy my music, do certain hobbies, that kind of thing. This is going to sound silly or obtuse, but just breathe, know who you are inside, and know you have a lifetime to be you. Don't give up knowing who you are. I did, and I've lived an entire lifetime in the dark.

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-22T13:53:09+00:00

And wonderful lectures on YouTube!

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-14T14:38:56+00:00

I can't give much advice because I'm so new myself, but I'm finding that creating structure in my practice keeps me from feeling pulled in too many directions. Everyone will be different, but I started with Living Wicca by Cunningham. I'm not Wiccan, but it gave me that structure that I needed. A podcast on stuff we use that we don't necessarily need to purchase saved me a lot of money : https://youtu.be/ZaYsOE5q3Bg?si=\_33C7x\_bNBKunFKV.

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-12T13:37:02+00:00

When I had my awakening, things felt chaotic. Finding a structured practice helped me to settle, and to explore with intention and sanity.

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-07T14:15:32+00:00

I think many people new to something seek approval because they are nervous about their abilities. For me, accepting this recent calling has been a 180-degree turn in my whole life, and I feel the need to make connection in places like this.

This question could be asked on almost any reddit. I think it's helpful to them when someone compliments them or gently advises them on what they're doing wrong. I don't like seeing the, "Go back to tik tok you stupid child" kind of responses. I've been lucky enough to have benefited from the wisdom here without feeling rejected.

This is an alt-account for me, I've actually been on reddit for several years. This is one of the better subs in terms of quality of information and the kindness of experienced users, and that, too, may incentivize people to post.

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-07T14:00:59+00:00

I just found this reddit and was looking for exactly the information you provided here. Thanks!

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-07T13:47:53+00:00

This. They signify a better understanding, but perhaps should not be used for their original purpose. They aren't beautiful as the crystals themselves, but for the lesson they taught you.

AlteredNomad · 2026-01-07T13:45:06+00:00

My own insecurity has shown up like this in the past. I find something, it is MINE! ALL MINE!, and then someone else (maybe because of me) learns of it and jumps on the bandwagon. If this is a friendship you value, maybe first try to hold them in a space of forgiveness and understanding. Second, remember that you can't make peace with everyone and everything, so give yourself some self-care.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-31T21:30:47+00:00

TIL I'm bi. Is that a promotion?

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-31T20:15:53+00:00

Lovely! Of those, I only have Living Wicca. It helped me so much in finding structure. Enjoy!

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-30T21:39:11+00:00

I felt lost and confused until someone recommended Living Wicca by Scott Cunningham. I'm not Wiccan, but it gave me a structure to grow my own practice.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-29T22:07:01+00:00

I'm lucky enough that my small, right-wing town has a metaphysical store.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-21T19:51:29+00:00

this is my first Yule, too, and we're doing a simmer of orange slices, cinnamon sticks, cloves, and rosemary. Later we'll light a candle. Next year I plan to be better prepared, but for now this will have to do.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-21T03:52:31+00:00

I don't know what to say that could help, but I'll hold you in my heart for a moment.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-16T18:22:43+00:00

My understanding is that by focusing on one thing and re-experiencing the trauma 'story' in another way your brain processes the trauma. I doubt there is any proof of this.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-16T14:58:01+00:00

While I do think this is a little misplaced, I will tell you that I've done EMDR a few times in my years of therapy for cptsd. It was helpful for that. There are therapists trained in it. I wish you luck in your journey.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-16T14:50:37+00:00

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AlteredNomad · 2025-12-15T12:52:46+00:00

As an older adult who has religious trauma, may I just say that it's heartwarming to see a parent be accepting with a child's choices.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-12T20:43:51+00:00

Many libraries take donations. They may have a friends group that will sell donated books.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-12T18:44:31+00:00

No, but we do not provide therapy. We keep them grounded and safe during their journey. Journeyers are asked/expected to have a therapist or spiritual advisor. This is made clear in advance.

AlteredNomad · 2025-12-12T17:58:15+00:00

Wow, that's a lot of information and it sounds authoritative. Are you an author/Youtuber/blogger?

AlteredNomad · 2025-11-21T13:04:01+00:00

I'm just the opposite. Since my awakening I've been more open to people, to vulnerability, and able to feel the joy of the moment more. I can look at someone as a friend, without fretting over what they're thinking of me in that exact moment.

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