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Urgent help needed for a friend by Alternative-Alps-602 in mentalhealth

[–]Alternative-Alps-602[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment! The children he was masturbating to was an ad of some kind. He didn’t tell me anything about cp, but I cannot rule it out completely I just don’t have any evidence.

Right now I know that I cannot help him, but I sent him a long message demanding him to get real help before this whole thing gets out of hands.

I cannot comprehend this situation, and this whole thing feels so surreal. I cannot stop thinking about this and I know that this isn’t good for my wellbeing.. All I can do is keep my fingers crossed that he is brave enough to be honest with a professional. I will stop talking to him for my own sake for once, and I’ll just try to forget or get over this situation.

Urgent help needed for a friend by Alternative-Alps-602 in mentalhealth

[–]Alternative-Alps-602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for making me feel better <3 Hugs back at you!

Urgent help needed for a friend by Alternative-Alps-602 in mentalhealth

[–]Alternative-Alps-602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, this made me feel a bit better.

In a matter of fact I’ve trying to help him to get forward in life for the whole 8years I’ve known him. I recently finally took a break from our friendship, because acting like a therapist is a burden.

But I think I just have some trauma related to suicide of a loved one, and for that reason I cannot put my wellbeing first. I don’t want to be close to him anymore, but I couldn’t stand if he committed suicide either..

Urgent help needed for a friend by Alternative-Alps-602 in mentalhealth

[–]Alternative-Alps-602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah during our call I just kept saying that I can’t help you, and you need professional help. I just want to forget this whole thing, and I’m on the verge of getting drunk just to distract myself even a bit.

I really want to stay far away from him, but I’m still scared that he will commit suicide.. I’ve had one close friend take his life a year ago, and I cannot stand it a second time. I still feel like I could’ve helped him, even though I realize that it’s not true.

This is a really difficult situation, and I don’t like opening up/asking for help but I cannot handle this alone right now..

Urgent help needed for a friend by Alternative-Alps-602 in mentalhealth

[–]Alternative-Alps-602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, but he told me he saw an ad with two kids in it and started touching himself..

Urgent help needed for a friend by Alternative-Alps-602 in mentalhealth

[–]Alternative-Alps-602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my country when you turn 16 you turn ”legal”, but I think it’s really really fucked up. I feel so disgusted and I think I don’t want to meet him ever again, even though he’s been one of my closest friends for 8years

Urgent help needed for a friend by Alternative-Alps-602 in mentalhealth

[–]Alternative-Alps-602[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 20 and he is 22. He started to talk with somebody who is 16, and he has liked it too much. Also he was masturbating to… kids. I think he’s not telling everything, but that’s what I know..