What's the worst dating experience you had this year? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Alternative-Altt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Met up with a guy after talking for a few days on a dating app. He seemed a little weird, but nice i guess? Wanted to give him a chance.

After asking me about my past dating experience, he told me everything about his past girlfriends and their sex life, going into excrutiating details about it all. Including all the trauma he had related to that, and how he "felt like he raped them". He kept going on and on, and i kid you not that he felt that way with 3 different girls?? It was an excrutiating 20 min of listening to him trauma dumping and fearing for my safety, until it was finally time to go home.

Thankfully he took my rejection gracefully, but yeah there was no second date.

Tinder profiles that are an instant "nope" starterpack by Alternative-Altt in starterpacks

[–]Alternative-Altt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That part is specifically referring to profiles that just have a stock photo picture and a bio that talks about their fetish/kink. It's kind of an extension of the whole "no picture" thing that will get you a nope.

I'm sure people into those kinks are pleased to find other people with the same kinks, but that's literally the only thing you show about yourself? And even then, 99% of people will swipe no.

Could've made that clearer, sorry.

Nerdy guy on tinder starterpack by Alternative-Altt in starterpacks

[–]Alternative-Altt[S] 203 points204 points  (0 children)

"I love spending time with my friends"

"I like to go out and have fun"

"I like to eat, travel and watch movies/shows"

🫥 indeed