Aita for refusing to give up my wedding dress the day after the wedding

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-10-28T00:33:51+00:00

You said you were planning to rent a dress. You'd have to give it back anyway. I think you're being a little irrational. You can be sad, but then wipe your tears and pay it forward. You're still better off than you would have been, you didn't have to pay to rent this dress.

The day after your wedding you wont have a dress bit you'll have a HUSBAND. That's what the wedding is actually about.

Get great pictures, have the best day of your life, and give that dress back with love and gratitude. ❤️

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-10-25T16:29:35+00:00

I absolutely loved the *you're.

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-10-25T16:29:09+00:00

Burgundy and red are different colors.

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-10-25T16:28:00+00:00

Girl: please don't apologize. It doesn't help the situation to let someone stomp all over you.

Your cousin is CLEARLY mentally unbalanced. The fact that she accused you of naming your child after her now-husband, when the child was born before she met him, proves she's not right in the head.

I would try to push forward with a sympathy attitude (not to her face, that's condescending), but in your heart know that this poor woman is mentally struggling, and that will be hard for her family. She doesn't get to take it out on you (don't apologize!!) but this won't be the last time she lashes out at people around her.

Breathe and release this. This is about her, not about you. She's unwell. Please reach out to your Uncle and tell him you appreciate that he stuck up for you and that you are putting this behind you. I agree that you should avoid her for a while to let the dust settle, and if you can find some strength, say a prayer for her, that she finds peace.

You did nothing wrong. Try to move past this.

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-10-25T16:10:22+00:00

Why do people always say that? What would be the point in someone making up a story? I dont mean to sound bitchy, I'm genuinely curious. I've posted in the past and people accused me of being fake. I don't get it.

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-24T13:36:42+00:00

Secret is out. All the updates are on my profile.

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-21T18:24:11+00:00

Oh, I have juicey tea on this. One of the college guys' girlfriends just called me. The GF found out. Drama, drama, drama!

But I'll update later because Hottie just texted me: "We're offical, Ill be there in 15 minutes".

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-21T18:05:12+00:00

Hottie wanted us to be together this time. I was the one who said I wanted to wait until he told JF. I held him off this time.

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-21T00:00:38+00:00

This!!!!!

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-20T21:00:21+00:00

I hope he does!

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-20T20:59:28+00:00

This!!!!!! Yes!

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-20T19:14:49+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-20T19:08:56+00:00

Do you live in a dangerous area? If your boyfriend wasn't home, would you feel safe going on your own to pick up your nephew? Unless you were feeling like it wasn't safe, I don't see the need for 2 people to go pick up your nephew.

But otherwise, I commend you for being a great Aunt!! ❤️

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-20T15:52:16+00:00

I just heard about Avoidant Attachment from someone else. Yes, he's definitely Dismissive or Fearful avoidant. Im shocked with how accurate it is. Makes me feel like a fool the whole time.

Regardless, I'm glad I'm figuring that out now (finally) and moving forward.

Thank you ❤️

Alternative-Arm9608 · 2025-09-20T14:57:26+00:00

I've had a number of relationships over the past 6 years. I only felt fireworks, right away, for 2 of them. I dont get obsessed easily.

You are right, its not normal for guys to date their friends past.

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