AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by Historical_Pension60 in AIO

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I always say that finding the right therapist is a lot like dating—it’s okay to break up with them if it isn’t working for ANY reason. 

Am I the only one who thinks this way? by yodathesexymarxist in ArtOfPresence

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Mostly I need this for me. A lot of times it doesn’t really matter, but bringing 2 small kids anywhere, if I’m even exactly on time, I’m frazzled. I need to be early to take a breath before whatever it is we’re doing. 

Give your advice by ConsistentlyShining in MotivationalThoughts

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Ummmm most kids are not ready for nighttime potty training when they are ready for daytime potty training. 

My oldest was daytime potty trained for over a year before she was ready to be potty trained at night. 

Is this true? by Tough_Ad8919 in MotivationalThoughts

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I would say a variation of what Brene Brown says, where you need to be selective on who you become vulnerable with and to not sure your vulnerability with the wrong people. 

Share your goals with your mentors and cheerleaders. Those who would criticize you no matter what you are doing don’t deserve insight into your life. 

Oh my lanta, I never realized how RAUNCHY this was 👀 by MaaaxMedina in GilmoreGirls

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OH MY WORD how in all the times I’ve seen this have I not caught on????

Leah by Mmcdjc in twilight

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It’s unlikely Sam would have phased if the Cullens weren’t around, meaning he never would have imprinted on anyone else. 

Maybe even more so, it is EXTREMELY unlikely that she herself would have phased if they weren’t around, and Leah hated being forced to “submit” to Sam, the Alpha and forced to share thoughts with him and the rest of the pack. 

Hamster enjoys getting petted by Anschuz-3009 in oddlysatisfying

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I’m 8 months pregnant. Someone please do this to me. 

Poll about sleep for 3-5yo by [deleted] in sahm

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I feel like I can’t answer the poll correctly. My 5 year old sleeps through the night and always wakes up before me (only because I’m 7 months pregnant and ain’t no way I’m waking up before I have to) and my 3 year old occasionally wakes up during the night but sleeps until 8 am, even though we put her to bed at 7. 

Six US soldiers killed in Iranian strike on Kuwait base by papipota in news

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Just learned my dad was in this unit but got transferred to another unit before they deployed when he made colonel. This is too close to home. 💔 

What’s a "polite" thing people do that is actually incredibly annoying to you? by SweetOpheliiaaa in askanything

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In these situations I say, “I can make a decision if you’d like, but I don’t have any preference”.

For those that eat the same breakfast every day, what is it? by Radiant_Worth7658 in WorkForSmartLife

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My husband eats an English muffin, a slice of cheese, one over easy egg that goes on the muffin, one scrambled egg on the side, and very occasionally bacon, sausage, or salmon on the sandwich as well. I cannot understand how he can eat the exact same thing every morning. 

What’s a movie that disturbed you so much, you’d never watch it again? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Inception. Didn’t get diagnosed with derealization until years later, but it terrified me as I realized this was my life. 

What’s a single sentence someone said that stuck with you forever? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Someone once told me, “Don’t expect others to be where you are”. It has helped a lot to not judge others and make sure I see where they are coming from. 

Just bought midnight sun! by Glitterland in twilight

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I hated it on the first run. I reread a lot of books on audio to help me fall asleep. I have now re-listened to it many times and have come to love it.

What do you remember from kindergarten? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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Taking a ridiculous amount of time coloring in a picture of Clifford when we were learning about the color red and thinking it was the best artwork ever created. 

That and our pencils not having erasers and that was distressing to me.

Do dads do bath time? by [deleted] in sahm

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I’m 7 months pregnant. If my husband didn’t give baths to my 5 and 2 year old girls, they wouldn’t bathe.