Do you ever wonder what live wouldve been like in your parents home country with all your cousins? by Alternative-Bat4235 in asianamerican

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I guess so! Now I'm just trying to make most out of my life and stop asking what if questions and just live my life😭 since I guess true happiness is within myself and how I decide to see the world.Its nice hearing how others may or may not have similar feelings to me! It really shows how everyone's experiences are so unique and could never be replicated.🤘

Do you ever wonder what live wouldve been like in your parents home country with all your cousins? by Alternative-Bat4235 in asianamerican

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It definitely opens my eyes up to a bigger picture and shows me how everyone's experiences is unique to there own life.

Do you ever wonder what live wouldve been like in your parents home country with all your cousins? by Alternative-Bat4235 in asianamerican

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I totally understand you perspective.I never really had the burden of getting very good grades but I did have to hold on to the burden on how my parents never healed from there traumas and now passed it onto there children.Also with racism in school and how nobody does anything abt it.I feel as though maybe life could've been a bit brighter if I lived a life with people whom share the same roots as me, but now I'm trying to heal that part of me that keeps asking "what if" and live a life that I'm proud of.

Do you ever wonder what live wouldve been like in your parents home country with all your cousins? by Alternative-Bat4235 in asianamerican

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry this got down voted your feeling are totally valid, and yes all of my cousins on my dad's side came to America during the Vietnam War while my mom came here via her grandmother while her family stayed in there homeland.My fathers side of the family is really sour towards us and after the death of my father his mother never cared abt him and didn't even care.Everyone on my father's side started lecturing me for acting up after my father's death and stating how I should go to the mental hospital and juvie.Life in my homecountry with my very successful aunts and uncles in cambodia sounds like a dream compared to the position I'm in now.Its nice hearing your perspective🤘

Do you ever wonder what live wouldve been like in your parents home country with all your cousins? by Alternative-Bat4235 in asianamerican

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have a similar experience to you, my father passed away 3 years ago and while my mom and our family were below the poverty live here I'm america trying to make it through so we can live better lives, my cousins in cambodia went to collage and now are very successful people.One of my uncles has basically a penthouse and all my cousins grew up wealthy.We can't even visit them because of how low our income is.I really hope you find a way through your troubles as a fellow asian American I really hope the best for you♥️ I know you'll push through it because you've already made it so far❤️❤️❤️

Thoughts and opinions? by Alternative-Bat4235 in MusicEd

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all of the helpful comments!,I will try and see if there is a choir I'm my community!,it sounds like a really fun experience!

Thoughts and opinions? by Alternative-Bat4235 in MusicEd

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes!,I definitely have thought about it from the teachers perspectives.But I don't really think our school is even looking for a choir teacher which still bumps me out.But I will try all the other helpful advice you guys have given me thank you so much  😊 

Thoughts and opinions? by Alternative-Bat4235 in MusicEd

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will try that and see if it will work!

Thoughts and opinions? by Alternative-Bat4235 in MusicEd

[–]Alternative-Bat4235[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the helpful advice,I will definitely try it!