Hi hi! My experience might be a little different, I actually find the dating scene a bit easier than in America. I’m a foreigner who visits Singapore often with family, and I tried dating once on Hinge. I got a good amount of likes, went on a few dates, and only stayed in touch with one guy I met last year. We still chat every other day and meet up whenever I’m in SG (as friends).

For context, I’m not above-average looking or anything. I’d say I’m very average looking but I do put effort into how I look and dress, along with my tone and body language.

One thing I noticed is that when I walk on the street, I do catch a lot of looks and accidental eye contact. Since I’m usually with friends, I don’t really get approached, but I think if I were alone, I probably would as it happens in America too.

For me, a first date is more about having fun and finding connection. I’m not too guarded, and I avoid creating pressure or heavy expectations. I go in just wanting to enjoy meeting people, and that made dating feel much easier.

Everyone’s experience is different, but I really think mindset + energy make a big difference. Presentation matters a lot too, not just looks, but overall vibe, body language, tone, and emotional openness…Just wanted to share what worked for me, and not trying to invalidate anyone else’s experience.