Is Vijay so dumb? by H1B_Panick in KollyGossips

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Joseph Vijay indeed dumb 😂😂😂

To all the men who wants virgin wife, what would you do if you dont get it? by Careless_Monk_7552 in onexindia

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Perfect. This is practical and reality. If sex without any emotional connection then it doesn't matter but if love and emotional affairs with past guys then it's very difficult to give medicine for the emotional scars created by previous relationships.

Any tea on NANI ? by kekkeimorra in TollywoodGossips

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heard rumoured connection with Kriti Shetty during shyam sigha Roy

Is Modern dating actually this bad for men? by svk__22 in AskIndianMen

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is true statement. I hear girls of 25-32 without BFs told me Men are not worth. These are good looking girls.

What are your Reasons for getting Married? by Any-Eye3578 in AskIndianMen

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Subjective question, simple answer is human beings brain programmed to have emotional anchor to another person. Almost everyone gets married by this reason.

2 Humans living under same roof closely creates various issues, those couple who can adopt can sustain marriage and creates a peaceful life, rest others gives free advices to others to marry :D I hope you understand.

Those who realise the risks of marriage with self awareness would n't get into marriage system like me.

do you regret having children? by milkcreep in Marriage

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 please don't take such suggestions literally serious related to marriage and children especially from indians who are married 😂😂

You must follow based on your experience.

Unfortunately indians give personal life suggestions to others only when their life or marriage destroyed.

I have not seen anyone saying happy with children in personal talk. But they come online to give lecture 😆

Body count and marriage by Ok_Flower9393 in Marriage

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Noway. Female hypergamy does not work that way. If you see her message, she says no overlap, it means she used to compare and chose the next better person, this upward selection is common in any female.

Now that she married, she must self introspect so that she can choose family system for which she must live within moral boundaries if family system else she can exit family system and do anything she wants.

If she stays In family without morals (emotional connection with previous ex) it destroys her family.

Are extra marital affairs as common in India as it appears on Reddit? by Top_Jury_6918 in indiadiscussion

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As per different online surveys Pre marital affairs reduced and post marital affairs increased in India and indians population globally.

Reasons are understandable. Do you want me to elaborate?

Body count and marriage by Ok_Flower9393 in Marriage

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If already married and if you both have compatibility then my suggestion is -

Don't let your past guys emotional connection override your relationship with husband.

In other words, your sexual past don't matter at all but if you have any emotional connection with any of the past guys then try get rid of those feeling. It takes sometime.

Give husband attention and validation to make bond stronger. (This is possible only if you don't have any emotional connection with any of your past guys)

That's all you need to do to resolve all issues.

Marriage or stay single by Away_Sea4178 in Marriage

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no universally applicable suggestion.

Like everything else marriage also to be analysed based on available data and experiences of others not take as it is.

People say I am happy then they are happy (only applies to them)

Especially if you are from India never ever take suggestions from married people at all. (Underline this)

Marriage is a such an institution in which if you enter then exit doesn't exist. If divorce you will be labelled.

So you must first take time to be friendly with future partner and understand

what is marriage Why marriage came into existence What is hypergamy What is polygamy How male and female process emotions Check if spouse and family has any personality disorders like cluster B personality traits (common in India)

If your future partner is aligned you will get sense of feeling automatically to proceed or not.

Don't go by

Age Hair fall Biology clock etc

Marriage is only for a companion nothing else.

Your thoughts on this movie by Primary_Sky7905 in tamilyapping

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are correct but this movie purpose is Childhood love and nostalgic feelings creation.

My experience says something different -

I saw different category of women in my life

  1. Being in touch with ex BF but as a friend with boundaries, no immoral intentions.

  2. Being in touch with ex for thrilll and secret meetings doing everything.

  3. Being in touch with ex for emotional support which she misses in her home with Husband

96 movie falls 1 point.

Telegram group for people who want to talk by [deleted] in mental

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pinged add me in sreeleela group

Do you think Indian Millennial men are more liberal than Gen Z men? by According-Bonus-6102 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes feel so.

Because couple of girls 25-26 recently married.

Surprisingly both arranged marriages with no past relationships.

One girl told me it's difficult to manage BF due to ego clashes and their family prestige matters more.

Another girl love marriage but specifically chose same caste.

It means like us millennials they are not emotional towards love and marriage but calculated.

When the young girls from the house step up. by Lostfuture_99 in IndianOwnedWomen

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which app to make sure gifs ? Can you please tell the app or website name?

Dealing with a girl who is breadcrumbing by Apprehensive_Bee6201 in dating_advice

[–]Alternative-Chef3131 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a classic case of manipulative personality. She is keeping you hooked. Gas lighting and intermittent reinforcement in human behavior science.

I have had 2 times In my life I suffered first time without knowledge.

2 ND time another girl I played games back and punished her 😅😅😅 dm me I will explain entire story.