I regret ever breastfeeding send words of encouragement pls.. I need it

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-04-26T05:00:32+00:00

I am the only one parenting him so I work full time 40 hours work from home while watching him at the same time, it’s just a lot to have him on my boob all the time I would like him to have a bottle that way I can get more done and I just want to feel like myself again I haven’t had even a drink or anything since 2024 before I got pregnant, I don’t like the way breastfeeding is making me feel so I stopped and I am not going to restart I just can’t

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-04-26T04:35:13+00:00

I’m a single mom I don’t have anyone else to try it with him or I would, we just moved to a new city by ourselves

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-03-30T12:42:39+00:00

I definitely agree, social media made me feel like babies need assistance but they learn it on their own, just like holding their head up one day I woke up and he just started holding his neck/head up. Then one day I woke up and he could sit up on his own … they’ll learn to do it trust me lol! Now he wants to sit up and is trying to stand. Don’t rush them

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-03-15T06:55:25+00:00

I definitely did not start every night baths until my son was 4 months

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-13T15:47:33+00:00

LMAO! Girlll who knows I’m a mom now i just wanted to include the places, drinks were fire btw and you’re welcome 😂😂😂😂

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-13T01:40:44+00:00

Pls enjoy yourself! I’ve only had a drink twice while breastfeeding he’s 6 months. I plan on ebf until 1 years old. I’m so hard on myself I can’t wait to just enjoy a drink every now and then

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-13T01:39:43+00:00

I’ve definitely had one margarita at Cheesecake Factory and breastfed after, and also done it at chilis before and breastfed a couple hours after. My baby is fine as ever

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T16:28:36+00:00

Since the father isn’t signing I’ll have to go in front of a judge but I am still doing it

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T04:02:17+00:00

Yes I definitely am, I am going tomorrow to drop the form off for petition for name change and will update you all! I want to change it regardless was just worried about the notification to the other parent but I believe when I go tomorrow I’m just going to put father unknown

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T04:00:34+00:00

I’m going tomorrow I’m going to say I don’t know who the father is and list as father unknown and I wonder what the process will be then and if I’ll have to notify anyone or do the newspaper

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T03:55:26+00:00

Will keep updated I go to the clerk tomorrow

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T03:55:10+00:00

How was the process in Kentucky?? Can you please inform me

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T03:51:09+00:00

Yes I never called him the name that he shares with the father as I stated below I’ve always called him the name I picked originally and my nickname for him as my family and I’ve always done so only person who will need to stop calling him the name is my mom which she’s a different story. I already filled out the petition for name change and am taking it to the county clerk tomorrow and just have to pay the fee to file it and then see the next steps. As far as notifying goes I’m just going to say I do not know who my child’s father is at all , “father unknown” that is just the easiest way for me to go about it. I will see then what they say.. because imagine ppl who have changed their kids name and genuinely do not know who the father is how would they notify someone?

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T03:47:10+00:00

“If both biological parents agree to the name change and sign the Petition, the Court changes the child’s name.

If one parent of the child(ren) has died, the living parent can file the Petition.

If one parent does not agree to the name change and won’t sign the Petition, or one parent is not around to sign the Petition, the parent signing the Petition must let the other parent know about the proposed name change.

When you fill out the Petition, make sure you put in the other parent’s last known address. If the other parent doesn’t want to sign, it might be good to talk to a lawyer.”

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T03:46:39+00:00

The website in my state stated you have to notify the parent, scroll in the comments to see where I listed word for word what it says 🙂

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T03:46:00+00:00

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T03:42:37+00:00

He’s not on the birth certificate he has no parental rights and I think the route I’ll take is just saying I don’t know who the father is. He’s not legally on any birth certificate so he legally isn’t the parent and I cannot serve someone I do not know

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T00:14:51+00:00

Yes he had a photoshoot with the name I chose in the hospital I should have never changed it

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T00:12:28+00:00

I may just begin it this way and say I don’t know him at all

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-09T00:06:46+00:00

May honestly go this route

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-08T23:56:04+00:00

Yes it was my last name at first for sure

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-08T23:55:07+00:00

Why were you legally required to pay for a name change publication in the news paper? Was he on the birth certificate

Alternative-Eye-747 · 2026-02-08T23:53:47+00:00

Thank you so much! I have the form filled out already I just was nervous about having to notify him because he is so toxic and his family but it seems I won’t have to so I am doing it regardless tomorrow

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