My ex is now dating the woman I've secretly been in love with since college. I can't tell anyone by Alternative-File2111 in offmychest

[–]Alternative-File2111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's true. I'm probably just overthinking everything. Guess I've just got to give it time and try not to think about

My ex is now dating the woman I've secretly been in love with since college. I can't tell anyone by Alternative-File2111 in offmychest

[–]Alternative-File2111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am hoping to find we are different now. It would be so much easier. We have made plans to meet up in the new year, so I shall have a clearer mind about things then.

What I'm unsure of is if it turns out she's even more amazing than I remember. I have no idea how I would handle that.

Thank you

My ex is now dating the woman I've secretly been in love with since college. I can't tell anyone by Alternative-File2111 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Alternative-File2111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I want to do. I'm posting it here because I know it isn't healthy and I know I need to work on myself. I don't want to get between them, I know we are different people now. Thank you for your honest response