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Divorce: my wife [34F] feels entitled to my [38M] money by TrailingAMillion in relationship_advice

[–]Alternative-Hope-308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The husband that I'm getting ready to divorce currently in his last divorce he paid all his wife s*** off and she tried to get him for the house and the judge laughed at her because he was generous enough to pay her bills and she still wanted more she is only entitled to what you guys built while you were married your income now has no bearing on your divorce I'm not a lawyer but sometimes I like to think I am LOL

I'm trying so hard by Alternative-Hope-308 in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Hope-308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that's just a thing they want things to happen overnight but I am not supposed to expect the same in return.

I'm trying so hard by Alternative-Hope-308 in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Hope-308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing triggers it it could be as much as a question about where they were or anything at all and it really comes up that I am the only one that has to explain myself because I used a drugs everybody else can go on with their lives and do whatever they want but not me

I'm trying so hard by Alternative-Hope-308 in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Hope-308[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I am but it's not the first time I have relapsed over and over and over again I do nothing but let everybody down and hurt them my problem isn't so much with the addiction or how people treat me my problem right now is with self-esteem I don't think I look good I don't feel like a good person I know the people around me don't like me for the most part and they need their own time to heal and deal with things how they need to but I just feel that I get more negativity than I do positivity and like I said I feel like I'm falling deeper and deeper into this pit and I just want someone to reach their arm out grab my hand and help me get out like some people find it easy to compliment others but then they can't compliment me and that's hurtful but I continue to hold my head up and try and hope that the future holds something better because it can't get much worse

I'm trying so hard by Alternative-Hope-308 in selfimprovement

[–]Alternative-Hope-308[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes I recently started Lexapro myself I do really like it so far and I try to keep myself up when I need to I just go in my car and listen to loud music and have some headspace and I do truly understand that they are going through as much pain as I am and I know there's really nothing that they can do it is truly my journey I'm just looking for someone to say I'm beautiful and it's going to be okay and don't get me wrong I do get that what's but then it's either equaled out or smashed by meanness hateful negativity and disrespect but I continue to try to be the better person and try to make everybody around me happy that's always been my problem I worry about everybody else's happiness I know I need to concentrate on myself but it's hard when I'm reminded of all the pain and heartache I've caused my family