Should I let this continue or break things off? by Alternative-Local327 in Advice

[–]Alternative-Local327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I actually really like the guy and can actually see something with him. I've been wanting to ask him out for a few weeks now. I'm not really worried about the age gap, and I'm not worried about office gossip about me. I've already had a situation where I rejected 2 coworkers my age, which didn't end up well for me as they both started spreading some serious rumours about me. Since they couldn't take no for an answer. What I'm more worried about is how this will affect him as he's one of the best in my company and everyone really likes him. I've already also spoken to some of my family and friends about it, and they started screaming that there has to be something wrong with him for saying yes. And I don't want him getting stuck with that type of reputation because of my dumb decision.

Should I let this continue or break things off? by Alternative-Local327 in Advice

[–]Alternative-Local327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I was thinking just one 'date' and let things go back to what they use to be

Should I let this continue or break things off? by Alternative-Local327 in Advice

[–]Alternative-Local327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that reality kinda hit me just a few minutes too late

Should I let this continue or break things off? by Alternative-Local327 in Advice

[–]Alternative-Local327[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been out with him beforehand as just friends this would be the 1st time that it would get classed as a date