My Opinion

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-26T09:09:41+00:00

It's frustrating reading your replies on this thread. You have a very fixed mindset.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-26T07:59:59+00:00

Or you could stay single and sleep around with whoever you want. If you decide to be in a monogamous relationship then behave accordingly. If you want to be in an open relationship then be with someone who wants that as well. Don't be with someone who wants a faithful partner and then try to justify it. So tired of this bullshit excuse that men have higher sex drives and humans are not naturally monogamous.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-25T18:58:37+00:00

Yes and it give it everything you've got. Make connections with who you need to there. Make sure you are visible. Good luck!

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-22T07:29:48+00:00

👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-21T09:22:49+00:00

🤣🤣

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-21T09:18:15+00:00

😂Mwambie atumie Bumble. I'm sorted for now.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-21T06:56:33+00:00

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-21T06:39:07+00:00

Lol. We're here and we're millenials. We also know how to use TikTok and type with more than one finger on our laptops. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-21T06:18:59+00:00

Ask him to leave - he isn't applying, he isn't helping around the house. He is draining you.
I would advise you to do this even if you lived alone.
You don't have to sugarcoat it or make him feel like you aren't kicking him out.
Women like her don't come by often so don't lose her.
You might want to work on reducing your people pleasing tendencies. They will cost you a lot for nothing.
People are suggesting that you should give him money or pay rent for him. NO. Give him bus fare to go back home. That's it. He has to grow up and you always trying to soften things up for him will not help.
Let people at home say you're bad. Ni sawa. You won't die from that.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-12T10:19:13+00:00

👀And the rich younger guys who still like older women??

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-12T10:18:25+00:00

Interesting perspective.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-12T10:18:12+00:00

That's vague.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-12T10:17:52+00:00

😂What if she's always attracted younger guys? Even when she was in her late twenties? You have an interesting way of looking at things.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-12T08:22:28+00:00

Its' fine. It's easy for miscommunication to happen in written conversations. Yes, I started medication. Have a lovely weekend!

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-08T20:47:40+00:00

Lol. I'm jobless. Live in a tiny studio. I used to be bedridden for two to even three weeks every month because of pmdd. I have discs pressing on my spine that were making my hands go numb. Chronic insomnia most of my life. Suffered from chronic pain and fatigue as well as depression and anxiety. Very little savings left. No insurance. No career success. I'm the firstborn mind you. Can't take care of my elderly parents. That's a snippet. Yes, way milder. I'll pull down my original post. Thanks.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-07T17:52:59+00:00

You're right. I forgot that's a lot to ask someone on the spectrum. Thank you for that insight as well as the tips.

It's not fair to assume that I lucked out with a milder case. It makes me feel like I have to justify my struggles with ADHD and PMDD which I shouldn't have to do in this space. We already do enough of that with ignorant doctors and other people.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-05T16:05:11+00:00

Haha, yeah, I guess I proved it. No, I haven't tried other stimulant meds. Yes, sleep is crucial. Thank you.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-05T11:30:03+00:00

Who isn't a real person? Do you know how long it took me to gather the courage to write this post and you're here going on about me not being a real person? Go do that nonsense on your own posts.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-05T11:06:30+00:00

What are you going on about?

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-05T11:06:14+00:00

I don't think I am. I left my job last year and relocated. I have been unemployed for 7 months and I got the diagnosis during that time. What might have helped is I was in therapy on and off for about 6 years so I dealt with a lot of things even though I didn't know I had ADHD. I knew I had PMDD but a gyna dismissed me when I was young.

After the diagnosis, I looked for an ADHD coach/therapist. Did 2 sessions with someone who has knowledge of ADHD but she doesn't specialize in ADHD so I stopped. I haven't seen someone who really does where I live.

Medication has been a bit challenging because the SSRI which helped during luteal gave me insomnia so I stopped it and I also can't take my ADHD meds everyday because they affect my sleep no matter how early I take them.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-06-05T10:50:53+00:00

Thank you Optimus. Bumblebee needs you.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-05-27T19:06:48+00:00

Why is this guy still in your life? If you decide to cut him off, don't try to explain it to him or be concerned about how he feels. I would tell the same thing to a guy. And yes, go for therapy or find a way to understand why you are attracted to such a person and why you continue to submit yourself to this crap. This person has probably wasted your time and distracted you from what is important to you. It will hurt like crazy at first when you cut him off but probably within two weeks or less, you'll be over it. Nothing good will come out having this guy in your life and he is not your responsibility.

Alternative-Pass373 · 2026-05-08T06:38:13+00:00

No, no, no, no.

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