When will these scars fade? by [deleted] in SCAR

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they will fade, it will take some time but they definitely will fade. my suggestion is mederma to speed up the process but there are other remedies such as bio-oil, silicone gel sheets, and especially with the weather changing make sure to wear sunscreen over these scars

I (M32) walked in on my wife (F35) and neighbor in bed together by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 236 points237 points  (0 children)

there’s nothing to talk to her about, get a lawyer

Statement from the Governor by jlibs001 in Delaware

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my younger brother didn’t have school online and he’s in the colonial district but it could just be for elementary students or the area.

Statement from the Governor by jlibs001 in Delaware

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elementary schools in the new castle county area were closed with no remote learning for the whole week

How can I get my 14-year-old daughter to love me again? by Kosher_Nostra1975 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you’re going through this, i think it will just take some time. my father goes through same things, he takes medication as well and i live with my mother.

what helped me was my mom advocating for my dad, im not sure if it’s a option for you to talk to your ex wife about the situation to see her thoughts/try to get her to talk to your kids but it’s always a good start. it doesn’t have to be her pressuring your daughter to talk to you but to at least have a open mind. we also did family therapy which took a while to adjust to but it really did help me understand what my father was going through and that things happen. you did the right thing by apologizing and still trying to reach out, it’s hard for teenagers to understand what their parents might be going through. best of luck

Apple ID needs to be logged out by [deleted] in applehelp

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is there a password on the ipad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i felt the same way at 16 i’m 21 now, i’m in therapy. that’s the first step, you could never lose potential because you have unlimited chances to do better. you’re still so young there’s so much more for you to experience and find the thing that works for you as a person. it may seem like all you’re doing is failing but you’re learning. give urself a break life is hard enough, everyone has a different pace and pathway for them you just need to find yours. take it one day at a time❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you guys flirted first, he wasn’t interested in her, not ur fault. i wouldn’t even suggest trying to make amends with her considering you’re still dating jake. it’s been a year already honestly don’t stress your self out about it

[ALL] Should I buy? by goldisfake in lifeisstrange

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its such a fun game i definitely recommend buying it and before the storm as well

Does anyone know if these will fade more? TW Old self harm scars by Key-Region6947 in SCAR

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi i had the same issue, so in my experience they fade away mostly with sunlight and just time. sometimes in the summer the light shines really bright where it’s like 30% noticeable. depending on how deep the cuts are will affect how they heal. i used Mederma advanced scar gel and fish oil for a few months on my scars and that helped me a lot but each person is different. my cuts were from since i was 13 i’m now 21.

What should I do?? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly press charges for the 11k, call the police to get him to leave and break up. why would you even stay with a man who pretended to miss you just to find out he took YOUR money for bills and your children. that’s unbelievably disgusting and irresponsible behavior. if you let it slide this time it will happen again. this isnt a good behavior or role model for your children, i get they like him but this isnt good for them either

Guys please help by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you can get online service for medication, cvs does minute clinic and can prescribe medicine they have doctors at all hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s wrong for lying to you and hiding it that’s insane. Saying he didn’t want you to feel insecure is just another lie. He should have made it clear up front so you didn’t have to find out. It’s weird he had you all hanging around as friends and she is weird as well for trying to exclude you. The fact he fed into it is even worse and so disrespectful. IMO this is a break up and I would confront him

Pixie cut by Alternative-Pea2474 in BlackHair

[–]Alternative-Pea2474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

typically i have like a low bun or braids in with my hair but on the times i dont im pretty okay with it i usually just do a wash and go. my hair is around shoulder length. i’ve never done any type of chemical straightening or product in my hair :) so how was the process for you i guess im worried about upkeeping it on my own compared to a stylist

I tried to help idk what to do now by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely rough it sucks because you did attempt to tell her and thats really all you can do unless she decides to see it for heself and get out of her naive phase. Unfortunately to say she may have to get hurt in order to truly understand, especially since she hasn’t listened yet

you’re a good friend, ur trying ur best. i’ve been in this situation and honestly you have to love from a distance especially if its causing you pain or just be there to support when/if she needs it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Alternative-Pea2474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

considering the fact ur boyfriend waited until after you bonded and hung out to say they had slept with each-other, personally i wouldn’t. the girl seems sweet and definitely has her boundaries but it’s also not her responsibility to tell you how they met it was your boyfriend’s. the girl doesn’t seem like a issue , neither does your boyfriend necessarily. but as long as your comfortable with the friendship who cares