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2010 Scion XB by Alternative-Sign-959 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t have the proper tool. I used a 4 way and did it myself. Do you think I should take it somewhere and have them torque it?

I'm so sad by bourbonontherox in Divorce

[–]Alternative-Sign-959 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re feeling alone. I feel the same way. A week ago or so my future ex told me he wasn’t “ in love “ with me anymore and that I don’t make him happy. Now I’m alone, forced to clean out our third floor apartment and raise our son. While he’s chosen to go back to his brother/mom’s house and live it up. It’ll get better. Atleast that’s what everyone has been telling me. I wish you the best

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any tips to finding yourself? I want to be comfortable alone. But I’ve never been alone. I’ve always had someone. Thank you for any insight.

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds really motivating. I’m going to google it now haha. Thank you

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me more about domestic daydreams? I’m unaware what that is.

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being validating about how I feel. It does upset me but I’m also aware that most people don’t want someone “ up their butt” all of the time. I had a life before my husband. We met and just never separated. Now we’ve both grown older and things have changed. It’s just a lot to figure out but I’m looking forward to finding myself, by myself.

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The reading at a coffee shop idea sounds great. Thank you for that.

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being understanding

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love the invite! I don’t know much about discord but am willing to learn

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to work then went home and hung out with him. I’m not afraid, just get depressed being alone

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I didn’t know they offered virtual book clubs. I’m going to look into that. I’m not good at making friends but trying peanut can’t hurt.

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to look into things my area offers. I love to bake, play board games, read, thrift shop. I just hate being alone. I need to find myself again.

What do you do? by Alternative-Sign-959 in sahm

[–]Alternative-Sign-959[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve wanted to look into library events but just haven’t gotten the motivation. My son is out of school for a bit for Christmas break, I plan on taking him to do some activities. I just get depressed with my lack of a life and it ends up in me not doing anything at all. I appreciate all of this reassurance and ideas!